• Photography

    #UnwrapMe – It’s not the end!

    Vacation provides ample opportunity to go bra-less, so I was pretty lax about #UnwrapMe. Thus, I still have a few matched sets left to share. Plus, I have several bins full of lingerie that I simply don’t wear often enough, sooo…. I plan to keep up with the sharing (lucky you!). Besides, it gives me an excuse to keep buying pretty things… …and exposing myself *wink, wink* But, since it isn’t Christmas present season anymore, I’m upgrading the #UnwrapMe title to “Brigit: Unwrapped.” This will be my personal photography theme for 2022. So, to wrap up the year let’s have a look at some of my favorite photos from this…

  • Experience,  Photography

    Solstice

      #SubmissiveAdvent I have not had much to say in response to the prompts for the past few days. I’ve basically been a lump of laziness. Covid has taken a giant rude shit on our holiday plans (we’re all perfectly healthy even though the young one has tested positive with a breakthrough infection). So now we are doing solstice, my birthday, Christmas Eve, Christmas, and New Year’s at home on our own. Good thing we like each other and are, for the most part, happy introverts. 😊 I don’t have to quarantine, because I’m vaccinated, but I still won’t risk exposing anyone by attending any festivities. A run or two…

  • Experience,  Photography

    Thank You

    Today’s #SubmissiveAdvent topic is gratitude…specifically saying thank you to someone who has helped me on my journey. So I’ve decided to give some shout outs to those from whom I have learned the most. Many of these people, I continue to learn from, through their writing/experiences. Conquer Me – Kacie Cunningham (the first book I read on submission…and one I go back to, time and time again) submissiveguide.com submissy.com LovingBDSM’s 30 Days of D/s Writerly readers who have stuck with me and supported me through presence and absence, creative highs and lows, and everything in between: Marie Rebel (seriously the first one who notices when I’m gone and when I…

  • Experience,  Photography

    Prayer

    I’m not an especially religious sort, but I do pray from time to time. I guess it’s more of a sending out of intentions or energy, or a request for strength or guidance in times of confusion or frustration or despair, rather than a conversation with a God. Though I suppose I’ve had plenty of those, too, over the years. Prayer to me is contemplation, so in many ways, what I do here is prayer. I throw my thoughts out to the universe, and sometimes the universe talks back. Prayer was the topic for today’s #SubmissiveAdvent. The entry for today provides this: Allow me the strength to answer questions I…

  • Experience,  Photography

    Light and Dark

    In each of us there is darkness and light. We are multidimensional, with “good” and not-so-good qualities. We have “quirks” and cracks, all based on what society deems acceptable. Alone, we just are. But when put with others, we are mirrors. And we are easily given to comparison, continually measuring normality, fighting or living up to expectation, and dealing with the emotional price of doing so. Not all of us question so much or spend as long in introspection, but those of us who do…we over-thinkers…can spend more time in our heads than in the world. The irony is, the world is in my head, determining my thoughts too much…

  • Experience,  Photography

    Trouble in Paradise

    We’re struggling over here, my friends. And the issue is an old one…one that rears its head yearly, and yearly makes things more and more difficult. I won’t belabor it. Too many of you have been around long enough to know the trouble we’ve seen. For those who are new, a very simplistic summary. 1. We have differing sex drives. I suspect an early hysterectomy affecting hormones, along with mental health issues, stress, exhaustion…and now perimenopause. 2. We also have differing sexual needs. I prefer monogamy, he leans toward polyamory…or at least swinging or other options that allow access to experiences with others. 3. We both need intimacy, but I…

  • Experience,  Photography

    Smile

    #SubmissiveAdvent I do a lot of smiling every day, especially at work. It’s always been an easy way to connect with others and set the tone. Wearing a mask has severely gotten in the way. Working with young people, who often rely on body language and facial expressions to make sense of the world around them and determine their level of trust and safety, can be difficult with masks. And I think it is starting to wear on us all. I’m not arguing the health and safety protocol. What I’m saying is that masks have exacerbated the social separation. Nearly two years apart, and now we must keep social distance…

  • Experience,  Photography

    Joy in Accomplishment

    #SubmissiveAdvent I’m the type of person who feeds off the rush I get from being productive. I’m good at planning and setting goals and, at least in my professional life, I’m good at accomplishing what I set out to do. I am constantly learning and improving. Last year and this year, I’ve been working on a degree to move into an administrative role. I’m in the internship phase now, with only 2 more classes to go. I’m a 3rd of the way through my portfolio. And then…well: opportunities. I wish I was as good at this process in my personal life. The benefit of this is a sense of competency,…

Are you 18 or older? This website contains material that is not suitable for readers under the age of 18. Please verify your age to view the content, or click "Exit" to leave. Content Warning: If you are sensitive to content referring to dominance and submission, please proceed with caution.