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What do you seek in others (turn-ons & turn-offs)?
My top 5 turn-ons Intelligence, humor, confidence, compassion, and sexual dominance (though I’m a bigger fan of soft dominance than hard)…these are all characteristics I am drawn to. Intelligence: I seek those who seek knowledge. Those who continue to learn and aim to better themselves. Not the know-it-all or the arrogant ass, but the one we all go to for feedback, advice, honesty…answers. The one we know we can trust to tell us the truth, even when it’s hard. The one who knows more than we’d guess. The one we’d want on our Trivial Pursuit team. Humor: If I can’t laugh with you, my relationship with you isn’t likely to…
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What are your turn-ons and turn-offs?
I’ve written plenty of times about turn-ons and turn-offs, so I thought I’d just do a quick brainstorm list of the things that turn me on and turn me off (because, of course, these things can change with time). I gave myself the length of one TV show to come up with the list, to make sure I didn’t think too deeply. Often I think the ideas that come to mind first say more about our true feelings than those we contemplate for hours. Turn ons: 1.blue and green eyes 2.intelligence 3.dominance 4.just the right scent/just the right amount 5.a muscular physique (on a man) 6.bigger guys 7.bald guys 8.facial…
