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Threesome?
I’m coming back to the quote I shared yesterday… I hope that in this year to come, you make mistakes. Because if you are making mistakes, then you are making new things, trying new things, learning, living, pushing yourself, changing yourself, changing your world. You’re doing things you’ve never done before, and more importantly, you’re Doing Something. – Neil Gaiman …because it relates directly to a current opportunity. While I am not intending to make a mistakes, taking risks and trying new things can result in mistakes, and the fear of making mistakes can hold us back from even trying new things. Learning, pushing myself, sliding outside my…
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Being honest about desire and sexual growth
I’ve never been good at asking for what I want (sexually or otherwise). Even after 15 years of marriage and 12 years of sex-blogging, I’m shit at putting my desires into words in the moment…to another human’s actual face. A desire hits me, but I choke it back. Is it because I’m unsure? Or because I don’t want to be vulnerable and admit that I want something? Or do I not want to be a bother? I don’t even bring up non-sexual things I want to do…shows I want to watch, plans I want to make. So, it’s really just part of my personality. He asks, What do you want to…
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The precipice…
Big deep breath in… This post may go everywhere, and I’m going to let it. *** Awhile back, I considered writing a post called, “What my cats have taught me about polyamory.” The idea was that, I have two cats, whom I love dearly…but they hate each other. I am constantly telling them (yes, I talk to them) that I love them both equally, and I can’t understand why they won’t see that. But, their jealousy remains, green between us. The funny thing is, one will burrow under a blanket and snuggle up next to me, while the other sits on my lap. They both know the other is there,…
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My letters to A (annotated version)
I posted this a few days back, but as I could see where the comments were headed, I felt I needed to “re-work” this and clarify a few things. I think it’s easy to just say I’m a crazy bitch here, and leave it at that. And it’s also easy to say Mr. LL is a weak Dom, as well. But, honestly, neither of those things are true. We ARE new to this. And I CAN see how that could be a criticism – that maybe we’re too new at it ourselves to be adding a third person to the mix…a person with different dominance needs, say, than I have.…
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Would you say no to a threesome?
First of all…I’m exhausted. Can’t really divulge any of the “work” details, as that would give my occupation away – but suffice it to say – the past few weeks have been nothing but performance evaluations, and I’ve had it up to here with unmotivated inferiors pissing and moaning about having to do their share. That said…tonight’s post may fall flat because of it. But, here goes – So the Wicked Wednesday prompt this week is: I’ve thought long and hard about this prompt. It’s so wide open it could go so many ways…and I’ve had a really hard time trying to narrow it down. But, as I’m currently sorting…
