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Threesome?
I’m coming back to the quote I shared yesterday… I hope that in this year to come, you make mistakes. Because if you are making mistakes, then you are making new things, trying new things, learning, living, pushing yourself, changing yourself, changing your world. You’re doing things you’ve never done before, and more importantly, you’re Doing Something. – Neil Gaiman …because it relates directly to a current opportunity. While I am not intending to make a mistakes, taking risks and trying new things can result in mistakes, and the fear of making mistakes can hold us back from even trying new things. Learning, pushing myself, sliding outside my…
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Restructuring
So we finally talked this morning, to reestablish our ground rules and boundaries. He began with, tell me what you’re willing to do. It was one way to start. But I opted to turn it around, in an attempt to keep him from editing his desires to accommodate mine. What do you want? We agreed that a D/s foundation is good for us both. He is a better person when he feels his Dominance is strong and respected. It fuels his self-esteem and makes him a happier human. I DO struggle with submission. Not gonna lie…I’m not a natural submissive, but I AM and always have been the more submissive…
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TGIF
Happy Friday! And, of course, Happy #boobday! Like many people, I see Fridays as a special day , something to look forward to and celebrate each week. It’s a small celebration…making it through another week to the weekend. It isn’t because I don’t like my work; I do, very much most days. But it takes a lot out of me, so the prospect of a few days to sleep in and relax more than usual is a blessing. My mind, body, and soul crave the weekend. Fridays are also good because it’s the day I socialize with friends. In normal times, it’s drinks at a local pub after work. Now,…
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The most daring thing I’ve done…
Honestly, the most daring sexual activities I’ve ever gotten up to have happened as a result of swinging. Meeting people online, fucking on the first “date,” having sex in front of others…even out in the open where groups of people could just walk by and have an eyeful, naked hot tub time, group co-ed showers. It was really the open and wild sexual time in my life. There were things I liked about it and things I really hated about it. I had good experiences and bad. So for this question from 30 Dirty Questions, I’m providing a list of 5 old posts that take you back to our swinging…
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Eating Out
I’m cleaning up some early blog work and updating it to merge with my podcast (Brigit’s Erotic Bedtime Stories), so I figured, since many of these stories predate most of my current readership, I’d refresh and re-post them as “new to (some) of you.” This one is actually based on some real people and is part of an early fantasy that Mr. D and I had in our beginning dating days. We used to go to this Italian restaurant where “Harmony” and “Cole” worked and we’d talk about what we’d like to do with them. Of course, nothing ever happened, and both of these beautiful young people moved on to…
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10 things I like about swinging
Okay…time to flip the coin and see what’s on the other side. Thursday’s post…“10 things I hate about swinging” wouldn’t be able to stand on it’s own without it’s very necessary counterpart. 1) Dating with my best friend, confidant, protector, lover, and Daddy is a rather special experience. I hate dating (as I’ve made pretty clear), but if you have to do it…doing it with that kind of support is amazing. You develop your own little codes and can read each others body language to make all kinds of decisions without the other couple even knowing you are communicating. It definitely draws a strong couple together in more ways than one.…
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10 things I hate about swinging
First, and foremost…I apologize if this is a bit of a rambling post. I’ve written it freestyle so it’s pretty stream-of-consciousness. Bear with me. Also, I plan to explore the 10 things I like about swinging in a later post. So, no worries. There are pros and cons to every issue, right? 1) It doesn’t come naturally, sexually speaking. I’m hard to please. I can admit that. I’m also hard to get off…for anyone but my husband – who seems to have the magic orgasm wand when it comes to my pussy. It’s no wonder, then, that I HAD to have him, keep him, and make him my own –…
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Club Sapphire -2013 New Year’s Celebration (club review)
I’m publishing this as a “Wicked Wednesday” post (click on the link to read other great posts)…as a it pertains to the very first hours of my “2013” sexual exploits. The prompt was: Alright…it’s 6:45 in the a.m. here on the West Coast. I’m on vacation. And I’m awake? Meh. So, I might as well tackle this review post, and play around on my blog for awhile before everything else in the house wakes up, too. Club Sapphire was a positive experience. Of course, it was BIG party…I believe they drew over 300 guests for their New Year’s Eve party (the most they have had). Now, keeping in mind, the…
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Deck the Halls…a 7 bonus swinger house party
To follow up on my previous “teaser” post…here are all the wonderfully juicy details! So this was our first “house party” (I know…it sounds so 1970s…place your keys in the bowl and swap wives for the night). I wasn’t completely sure what to expect, but we knew the people throwing the party pretty well and had heard their parties were good. We had the added benefit of being able to bring our trailer and plug in, so we’d have a warm haven of our own when we were ready to sleep or if we wanted to invite guests to a more private environment, which turned out to be a very…
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All-time Worst Swinger Ads
Below, I have crafted a compilation of all the worst ads we have seen while perusing swingers personals. Simply checking SLS and AFF (or better yet, Craigslist) is an evening’s worth of entertainment for us. And yes, we’re that mean – we get a kick out of mocking other people’s poor spelling and grammar (not that I never make a mistake…but seriously – there is a limit). The other fabulous part of these ads is the pictures. Disembodied penises and boobs, close-ups of genitalia, scanned-in/grainy photos, Wal-mart family photos, and pictures that make it obvious the couple has no clue how to keep house or put shit away. I have…
