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Initiating sex (active submission)
I’ve never been much good at initiating sex or being very creative about it. But, as I mentioned in yesterday’s post, I’ve been pretty horny recently (don’t know if there is some special alignment of the planets I’m unaware of…or maybe the world is coming to an end…), so I’ve been taking advantage of that feeling to step out of my comfort zone a bit and ask for things when I want them. For example, I woke Him up with a blow job the other day, when normally I would have stifled that feeling and gone about getting ready for work. I would have talked myself out of it…told myself…
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I’m (not) afraid (anymore)
I feel like I’m constantly evolving, learning and growing as I push to take up more space inside of myself. It’s a wonderland inside my brain, and there are never-ending possibilities for expansion. Especially when it comes to my sexuality. That’s how this blog was found. I knew I wanted to write, and I knew I wanted to share what I wrote and communicate with others, but until I found my theme and honed in on the specific topic of sex, my blog was pretty much just a jumble of thoughts about everything, and it wasn’t helpful at all in finding clarity. Now, not only do I know what I’m…
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Emotional Health and Submission
Submission appeals to responsible, hard working and independent women, because it takes them to a world free from those pressures. Are submissive all hard working and independent? Have you found this statement to be true? Is submission a world without pressure? This morning, as I was doing my submissive reading/research, as I am wont to do on a weekend morning, I came across Lillith Avir’s prompt (above) and read a section of Luna K’s Submissive Journey, “Living as an emotionally healthy submissive.” I find some connections between these two sources, so I wanted to take a moment to reflect. First, I’ll respond to Lillith’s questions. I don’t believe all submissives…
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Mistakes were made…
I have a poster on my classroom wall that says… Yesterday, a student noticed it, said he liked it, and noted how true it was. I emphatically agreed, extending the conversation a bit with, “if you never fail, it means you aren’t being challenged. If things are always easy, and you always get A’s, that means you aren’t learning anything. And that means I’m not doing my job.” It honestly looked like a light bulb had just gone on above his head. And later, one went off above mine, as I related it to this quote and to my own life–my marriage specifically…and even more specifically, our sex life. Mistakes…
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Submission Saturday
I’ve been putting out a #submission365 post each day since January 1st, on instagram and on twitter (see the sidebar widgets to follow). The point is to choose something I know I need to reflect on, personally. I haven’t been journaling on the topics myself, mainly because I’ve been putting in the time just getting used to this new morning social media routine. But now that I’ve set myself up well, I think daily written reflections are a good idea. To catch up a bit, let me select a few of the #submission365 posts from the past few weeks that resonate most deeply with me: I think some people feel…
