submission – Brigit Delaney

Growing together in harmony = Good communication

Brigit DelaneyMay 19, 2021

Continuing on the heels of yesterday's post, our three-way chat conversation continued, and I think we all navigated it pretty well. It's hard to have complex "human dynamic" negotiations (especially those that are sexual inContinue reading

A “good girl” is always available

Experience

Brigit DelaneyApril 7, 2021

He came home an entered my office, where I sat, brain mired in law books and legal cases, writing a paper for school. I looked up at Him, knowing He’d expect me to come in the other room and remove His boots, as is our nightly ritual, but I couldContinue reading

Dominance and the Power of Command

Experience

Brigit DelaneyApril 7, 2021

I’m on Spring Break right now, which is heavenly. I have absolutely nothing planned, other than catching up on the mountain of laundry in my mudroom, writing, and reading. Mr. D, is at work, though, and sometimes it’s fun when He intrudes on my R & R. Like yesterday –Continue reading

Emotional Health and Submission

Experience

Brigit DelaneyApril 4, 2021

Submission appeals to responsible, hard working and independent women, because it takes them to a world free from those pressures. Are submissive all hard working and independent? Have you found this statement to be true? Is submission a world without pressure? This morning, as I was doing my submissive reading/research,Continue reading

What can I do for you?

Experience

Brigit DelaneyJanuary 20, 2021

That’s what it’s about, really. Submission may provide me with quite a bit (freedom, well-being, structure, protection and care), but what have I done for Him lately? Well, I don’t expect a standing ovation, but I did initiate sex a few days ago (very unlike me). But mainly this month,Continue reading

Mental Switch – releasing control and managing focus as a submissive

Experience

Brigit DelaneyJanuary 19, 2021January 19, 2021

I realized that while I was in control, I was unhappy. I didn’t like being a nag. I didn’t want to have to make all the decisions in a relationship, but I did want a voice. I wanted to feel cared for and respected. I also needed to be vulnerable.Continue reading

What I want as a submissive

Experience

Brigit DelaneyJanuary 13, 2021January 13, 2021

I know submission is supposed to be about giving and serving, but I think it is important to reflect on what you, as the submissive, get from it, both in the beginning, and periodically, just to update and ensure that it is still fulfilling for you. Because that IS important.Continue reading