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“Stop” is My Safe Word
This post is #10 in my 30 Days of D/s series. If you’d like to read more, please visit my 30 Days of D/s page for the complete inventory of posts. I’ve never had a safe word. Though I understand why people would want a safe word, especially in a BDSM scene or a situation of inflicting and receiving pain, I’ve just never felt a need for one…mainly because we really haven’t done anything warranting a safe word. Normally, I just say “stop” when I don’t like something or when I can’t handle it anymore. Sure, he’s pushed it past my “stop” (just a tiny bit) but 99% of the…
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Safe Words…featuring Homer Simpson
Just for fun…I wanted to post this awhile back, but I had a hard time finding the video clip. Just thought this was funny, in light of current “swayings” in my life. My jaw dropped when I saw it for the first time, though, I have to admit. When mainstream TV gets ahold of kink (especially a cartoon – even if it IS prime-time satire), it always makes my head turn. Of course, it usually makes me smile and giggle inside. What makes me laugh harder is when I do a search for a video like this and see posts, blogs, and questions relating to “What’s a safe word?” or…