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Bookmarking: a strategy for prioritizing intimacy
So I kind of continued down my internet rabbit hole from yesterday, moving from mindful intimacy to the consideration of presence and freedom, within the context of connection to a partner and/or lover. I know I need to be more mindful and more present in the most important areas of my life. To plan less so I can do one more of what matters. It means not letting my schedule get away from me…because time is the key. It also means maintaining energy, because even when I have time, if I don’t have the energy to do things, I won’t have the motivation and I won’t be able to focus.…
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Wearing Nothing but His Socks
She had her hands in the dirty dishwater when he came flying around the corner wearing nothing but his socks, his hair disheveled, and his face unshaven. “He’s outside! Quick…to the bedroom!” “What?!” she feigned shock, but her naughty smile betrayed her. Since they’d had kids, “quickies” were definitely where it was at. They’d tried all kinds of possible places (yes, even the closet), and had been interrupted more than a few times, which was part of the intrigue – they could be caught with their pants down, at any moment. The difference between a quickie and regular sex was that there was never time for foreplay, no time to…
