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Porn in the shower
I don’t watch porn very often, but I found myself questioning why that is yesterday, after seeing the prompt for “4 Thoughts or Fiction.” In fact, my brain went down a bit of a rabbit hole on the subject, following my go-to reflection questions: who, what, where, when, why, and how? Why and When So, why do I watch porn? I usually watch it when I’m already turned on. Porn, for me takes away the thought…it does the thinking for me, providing images, and sometimes sound to fill my brain while I fuck myself. It can also be the impetus when I’m not already turned on and need a quick…
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Quick Release
Maintenance masturbation…or what I’d call Quick Release…is both necessary and superficial for me. It isn’t deeply satisfying, like the type that engages my brain…the kind constructed of a mental image and often inspired by visual or audio stimulation (books, music, movies). That kind is gradual. It sneaks up on me, like the shadows from a setting sun, and I find myself surprised, warmed at the throat, pussy clenching and suddenly hungry. Quick Release is more like an anti-anxiety medication or a muscle relaxant…only fast-acting (especially with just the right speed and strength of vibration held to the left or right side of my clit, pressed just so, toward my vaginal…
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What do you think about when you masturbate?
Quite honestly, there are only a few things that can and will go on in my brain during masturbation. Because I know my body well, and because I normally masturbate with an end game in mind (orgasm = release, and release is usually the goal), I’m often simply just feeling rather than thinking, which means focusing all of my energy and consideration on the parts of my body that are feeling pleasure: nipples, clit, vagina, anus. I’m a pretty simple girl in that. And I don’t take long to cum when I’m in my own hands…usually less than 5 minutes. Sometimes less than 1. But there are times when I…
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Momentum
My desire to masturbate, or not, is a fairly reliable indicator of the status of my libido. Honestly, my desire to write, or not, is just as much so. You can pretty gaurantee that if I’m writing, I’m feeling it…or at least on the brink. But masturbation, like writing, at least for me, involves work…and commitment. At least to get started. Staring at a blank page is much like staring at my toys considering what to write or how to touch myself. What will work? Where do I want to go with this? Am I writing just to “get it out of my system,” or am I trying to create…
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Masturbating to Relax
There are a million and one good ways to relax, but I must say that masturbation is one of my top ten. Here are my top three reasons… It Helps Me sleep I usually find myself seeking it out right when I go to bed. It takes me less than 5 minutes to climax (10 on a particularly tough night), and then boom, I’m off to the land of nod, mind cleared, daily stress minimized, and body-tension released. It’s not magic. In fact, it’s quite easy to explain how it works. I have a basic vibrating dildo, but I rarely use it internally. I know that every woman’s body is…
