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Submission is new every day
Side note: I time block using Google Calendar to plan my days and weeks out in advance, making sure I’ve made room for all the things I have to do and as many of the things I want to do as possible. Something new I am trying this year is to delete activities/events on my digital calendar as I complete them. It leaves me with a blank calendar at the end of the day, and the past is the past. It seriously makes me a little anxious, as I have never done this. I usually catalogue and sort and keep evidence of everything I do. And yet, there is really…
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Love Languages and Sex
It’s been awhile since I took the Love Languages quiz, so I retook it for this post, and found that my results have changed a bit over the past few years. The last time I took this quiz, my top result was “Quality Time,” but probably due to experience, it has shifted to “Acts of Service.” (Which is kind of funny, since I’m supposed to be the submissive in this relationship.) Here’s what the site had to say about this particular result: “Can vacuuming the floors really be an expression of love? Absolutely! Anything you do to ease the burden of responsibilities weighing on an “Acts of Service” person will…
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Journal 9/23/2019 a.m.
Okay…our 3rd (sadly low) offer on the house came in Saturday and with news that a 4th was coming, they quickly rescinded. The 4th was actually the most decent we’ve had, and it came with a very sweet letter telling us how much they really liked the house and hoped to raise their kids there. They actually put a healthy chunk of change down in earnest, as well. So…looks like things are moving towards a sale again. Thank god. Yesterday pretty much ran away from us. After having been out of town for soccer most of Saturday, we had to make up all our weekend chores, and our son had…
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Love Languages in D/s
Kayla Lords commented on my recent post Letting Go Just a Little More: I’m reading your “good” submissive comment as a subjective thing about what *you* consider to be good and not some standard of “goodness” — because there is no standard of that. It’s about whatever works in your relationship, and I wish you good luck and joy in figuring out what that means for both of you. And I will say that although my submission is this weird “natural” (a loaded word I don’t love but I haven’t found a good alternative to yet) part of my personality, even I (and many of us) have those moments of…
