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How I knew I was kinky…
Well, first of all, I’m not positive I’d label myself “kinky,” but then, in the grand scheme, if I were to measure myself against the sexual proclivities of others, I likely am. So here goes. The First Taste of Pain When I was somewhere around 17, I had a boyfriend with that skinny, doped out rocker look. He was what I would describe as being “ugly cute”…some combination of Steven Tyler and Keith Richards…with a little Rod Stewart to slow things down. But something about him drew me in. He wasn’t at all the “manly” type. He was thin and tall and soft spoken. We smoked a lot of…
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What role does kink and fantasy play in your sex life?
This week’s #EroticJournalChallenge prompt is: How does kink and fantasy play into your sex life? What have you already done and liked or disliked, and what new activities would you like to explore? Maybe this is a good time to make a bucket list? CLICK HERE TO READ THE INSTRUCTIONS/RULES & GET THE BADGE! You can also see upcoming prompts on the main #EroticJournalChallenge site. Highlighted Post: The highlighted post from the last prompt is by submissy. I think a lot of us can relate to this, as the pandemic has sort of put a black cloud over everything this past year. But being able to notice and admit what is…
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Fantasies, Dreams, and Kink
We all have proclivities, preferences, and prejudices…things we are drawn to, things that make us turn away or even disgust us. What do you tend to fantasize or dream about when it comes to sex? What kinds of porn or kink are you drawn to? What turns you off? For me… Fantasies I fantasize about things that are romantic and passionate and that involve a lot of touching and kissing and creative foreplay. And, I’ll be honest, I’m usually at the center of my fantasies, receiving, rather than giving…having things done to me or for me. For example, a fantasy of mine is to be bathed and rubbed and lotioned and fucked slowly and sensually…
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4 Sexual “Likes” I Don’t Like to Talk About
(Warning: Rape as fantasy is referenced in this post.) This week’s Erotic Journal Challenge prompt is “Distress.” Guiding Questions: Do you now find, or have you ever found, anything distressing or uncomfortable about your sexual thoughts, fantasies, desires, or actions? Is there anything that you want or need that you have trouble asking for or are reticent to admit because it makes you blush? Have you had any experiences that have caused you embarrassment? It’s important to note, the way I came up with the questions for this challenge was to research the possibilities and add them to my own ideas. I then typed them all out, cut them apart,…
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EJC Update: “Prostate Play”
See original post HERE. I found myself pulling into the alley of the local adult store to park in the secluded back lot. This is a small town, and I’m always a little terrified of running into people I know, namely past students, while perusing vibrators and lube. It’s worse than the August nightmares I have of showing up the first day of school having forgotten my clothes. But, I sucked back my fears, parked next to the lone Geo Metro and entered through the aptly marked “Back Door.” I suppose it’s meant to be witty, but quite honestly, it made me feel more self-conscious than I already had been.…
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Blue
So last night when we went to bed, Mr. D told me to turn on the lamp and roll over on my belly. He handcuffed and blindfolded me and began rummaging through the toy drawer (which is currently nearly empty). I was excited and happy that he was trying something new…well, not necessarily new, but different from the current status quo. It felt good for him to take control of me. I heard the tell-tale sound my trusty blue vibrating dildo and welcomed its touch between my legs. I spread my legs and pressed my face into my pillow, pushing against the buzz with my clit. He laid it on…
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YKINMKBTOK
“Your kink is not my kink, but that’s okay”… (Wicked Wednesday Prompt) There isn’t a person on the planet who is wired the same way. Not even twins. We have our own thoughts, our own needs, our own fantasies. The things that turn us on, sometimes surprise even us (I know, I’ve been there…like – “what the hell? he’s got his hand around my neck, holding me down, and…wait! he’s sort of choking me here! oh, holy hell…I like that…why the fuck do I like that? this is twisted…”). So, we know the internal sex lives of some other people could quite possibly shock the hell out of us (or…
