• Experience,  Opinion

    TMI Tuesday

    1. Do you feel that happiness is luck or is it a practiced mindset? I definitely believe it is a mindset. And even if it weren’t, it certainly isn’t luck. Happiness is more a state of mind in which we accept our circumstances for now (planning and working to change what we must) and ourselves and find ways of feeling good in our world. Practicing gratitude, prioritizing relationships and connecting with others, being kind, smiling, being active and healthy, sleeping well, taking care of our needs and the needs of those we love, being productive and impactful in our work and activities. These are all ways of practicing happiness.  …

  • Erotic Journal Challenge,  Experience,  My EJC Responses,  Photography

    State of the Union

    I’ve done a State of the Union post at the beginning of the year before. Just a description of where my sex life and marriage is today…to get the lay of the land, so to speak. It’s hard to decide where to go next if you aren’t fully aware of where you are now and where you’ve been…and we’ve been a lot of places. Currently, we’re getting back on the horse, after a long stint of slowly falling apart. I’ve only recently reviewed that, so I won’t rehash it here. But, we are currently doing okay 👍. We’ve had sex a few times (instigated from both sides) and have agreed…

  • Erotic Journal Challenge,  My EJC Responses

    What Feels Good?

    Anyone who follows Yoga With Adriene will recognize this saying and Benji the blue heeler. Let’s just say I’m a fan of all three…the yoga, the thought, and the dog. Hence, I had to have the t-shirt.     I’m still not back to work yet, which means, I’m still avoiding bras and real pants. Occasionally, though, I head out for an *adventure* to the post office or the grocery store. Today, it’s the nail salon. So this is as close to a real bra as I’m getting.     And, of course, yoga pants…and my insulated, waterproof Bogs, because SNOW ❄. *** Comfort is the name of the game…

  • Experience,  Photography

    Post Run Strip & January Wrap-up

    Well, today is the last day of January, and I’ve had a decent month: January Jumpstart: 24 posts this month! The Erotic Journal Challenge: 13 entries this month! (2 were my own) #submission365: I started an Instagram account, posted every day, and have gained 59 followers. I wrote 14 #tinypoems on Twitter. The Erotic Book Club: I finished my fist steamy book of the year (Bridgerton), set my Goodreads account back up, and set myself a challenge of 40 books during 2021. I masturbated 7 times and had sex 8 times (at a rate of twice per week). I initiated 37% of the time. I have also finally gotten myself…

  • Experience,  Reviews,  Sex Toy Reviews,  Toy Stories

    The Fantasy Box (an intimate review)

    (Spoilers ahead. If you are planning on purchasing The Fantasy Box, you might want to wait to read this.) So our sex therapist suggested we subscribe to The Fantasy Box, and we finally got our first one a few weeks ago. You can select a basic, mid-range (the one we chose), or deluxe box, which are priced accordingly. You answer several questions in the process of sign up, to ensure proper sizing, themes, and content. And the boxes come to you in a particular order. The box arrived quickly, in discrete packaging, and of course, when we tore right into it. But the box is set up to introduce you…

  • Photography

    Pretty Things

    This one isn’t too bad, but it definitely made to be more pretty than functional. The bra cups are a little “open” for my taste, so I had to do quite a bit of adjusting. And I’m usually not a bikini style girl. These ones kept sliding down under my “mom shelf” all day. Not something I love to be reminded of. Unfortunately, this blue set is sub par. The wires on the bra dig into the bones between my breasts (and the lace doesn’t lay flat) — seems like a construction problem. And the undies ride up my ass during the day. The whole thing was less than comfy,…

  • Experience

    Sex Stats

    I do so love a tracking app! It really puts things in perspective to see things as numbers and visuals, rather than relying on my own interpretation of things, which is sometimes woefully off the mark from reality. My memory is terrible, and when I add emotion to the mix, well… Keeping track of my sex life in a purely scientific way is useful, because it helps me see it as “just the facts,” which cannot be refuted. I was taking a quick peek at my Sex Diary (the app I use is called Sex Life) stats for January (not so great this month), and then I swiped the arrow…

  • Experience

    Intoxication

    It’s not something I’m usually conscious of: His scent… always subtly whispering…having secret conversations with my own…mingling to create the smell of us. Of course, I was highly aware of it early on…not so much that it was there…or that it was good. The right scents are often like that. So right…possibly so like our own…so natural, we almost miss them at first. It is always easy to tell when someone’s scent is wrong. When the chemistry is off. But when it’s right? Up close, His breath against my lips, under my nose… inhaling the heat in the crease of His neck… the softness of His chest hair… the deep musk of His groin……

  • Experience

    Freshly Fucked

    From our shadowy, mid-morning bedroom, He texts me a photo of His awakening cock…and the words, this needs to be in your pussy. Of course I smile and immediately make my way to the bedroom, past our headphoned, oblivious teen – happily immersed in a video game and unlikely to hear my smothered moans and whimpers in the other room – my face buried in a pillow, or His chest, my fingers between clenched teeth – swallowing pleasureful sounds I wish I could set free. (How long has it been since I could scream?) But this is the real world, and we have learned to adapt to our less than…

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