• Blogging & Writing

    My most popular posts of 2019

    Looking to find some great posts you might have missed? New to the blog and wondering where to start? Here are my most read and commented on posts of the year (and all time). Photos: Shadows & Shyness A Proper Tit Drop Iceberg Personal Experience: Processing Emotions about Polyamory Sexiness is a State of Mind All of Me Fiction: The Storm I Lay Beside You Frigid Opinion: 14 Qualities of a Good Dominant Know Your Audience, Your Craft, and Trust Yourself What’s in a Name? (How D/s Labels Can Help Us Find Ourselves All Time Favorites from the Blog: Processing Emotions about Polyamory Charlie’s Bar (fiction) Naked in the Rain…

  • Blogging & Writing,  Brigit's Favorite Things

    My Top 10 of 2019

    I’ve pretty much stopped doing #SoSS. Even though I love what others are doing with this, and I fully support the premise of “sharing our shit,” I have a difficult time keeping up with it. Instead, for 2020, I’ve promised to share posts more often on twitter under my #coffeerotica (a.m. – reading with my coffee) and #winerotica (p.m. – reading with an evening cocktail) hashtags. It’s my way of supporting other writers in a way that is more feasible for me, time-wise, and one that I am more likely to do more often. I also felt like jumping on the bandwagon and creating a Top 10 of the year…

  • Blogging & Writing

    Accolades, Smut Marathon, and a “Regular Features” Update

    Regular Features I am updating my regular features. Many of these things I already do to some extent now, but I’m trying to simplify and figure out the best way to cover the most ground as possible without over-extending myself. I can’t manage to write every day, and sometimes other topics come up and trump the usual plans, but on the days that I can manage (and when the memes inspire), this is where I’m headed: Monday: Mindfulness Monday – I need a lot more mindfulness in my life, especially in the categories of sex and marriage. This is going to be my place to explore that. Tuesday: Meme Rotation (This…

  • Experience

    Sensual Blogger Award

    Pervertically Virtuous has nominated me for the “Sensual Blogger Award”: I’m honored, of course…I always blush a bit when someone hands me a compliment.  But, I found this one unexpected…not because I don’t think my writing is sensual…but because I had no idea who P.V. was until now.  I’m excited to find out I have a new reader and flattered to be noticed by someone “unknown”to me. It intrigued me enough that I’ve been inspired to do something similar. Now, I know – these things can be a bit “chain-mail”-ish and not everyone is “in to” these sort of “awards”.  More than anything, I think these awards are more about…

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