This post is #3 in my 30 Days of D/s series. If you’d like to read more, please visit my 30 Days of D/s page for the complete inventory of posts.  I totally get how negative labels can be, and I’m not about to say that labels can or should define us. But, labels can help us find and learn about things that we like or feel an affinity toward. Imagine how hard it would be to find out about our kinks if we just went out there on the internet searching for “kinks” and EVERYTHING came up. No. We need labels and categories to help us narrow things down, find information, and…