• 30 Days of D/s,  Experience

    Please Spank Me, Daddy….

    This post is #22 in my 30 Days of D/s series. If you’d like to read more, please visit my 30 Days of D/s page for the complete inventory of posts.  Mr. D and I have slowly been sliding our feet back into our D/s dynamic over the past month or so, redefining what we want and how we want it, and I’ll admit, it feels different than it ever has before. More than anything, I feel different, and He has been a lot less quick to move things along, which means I’ve felt more comfortable. It’s given me the opportunity to begin wanting things before He has a chance to introduce them, and I’ve even…

  • 30 Days of D/s

    Readers’ Forum: Do You Use Orgasm Control?

    This post is #21 in my 30 Days of D/s series. If you’d like to read more, please visit my 30 Days of D/s page for the complete inventory of posts. Quite honestly, I don’t have a lot to say about this topic. This isn’t anything Mr. D and I have ever tried or even talked about trying. I’ve read stories and other people’s accounts that make it sound terribly erotic, but for myself, it’s not something I’ve ever counted as a thing I really wanted to try. But, since the topic came up for 30 Days of D/s, I figured I’d at least attempt a post. After all, there is quite…

  • 30 Days of D/s,  Experience,  Opinion

    D/s Doesn’t Always (or Ever) Have to Be About Sex

    This post is #20 in my 30 Days of D/s series. If you’d like to read more, please visit my 30 Days of D/s page for the complete inventory of posts.  Tonight, as I looked at my new workout video and talked out loud about what I need to do to really lose weight, I told Mr. D that it would help if he told me I had to do it…if he’d add a Saturday and Sunday workout to my rules. Snap. Done. Just like that. And yes, in my mind, it instantly became a “have to” rather than a “maybe I’ll give it a try.” When I have to ask to spend…

  • 30 Days of D/s,  Experience,  Opinion

    When Sub Duties Become Irritating

    This post is #19 in my 30 Days of D/s series. If you’d like to read more, please visit my 30 Days of D/s page for the complete inventory of posts.  I forgot to mention this in yesterday’s post, so I decided to do an addendum post today rather than move on to the new topic. (As you can see, I’m taking my time with this and the 30 days will take me well in to May.) This is a tough topic, but I think it’s important to deal with in any discussion of 24/7 D/s. As subs, we’re not always going to be in the mood to comply with…

  • 30 Days of D/s,  Experience,  Opinion

    Real Life D/s

    This post is #18 in my 30 Days of D/s series. If you’d like to read more, please visit my 30 Days of D/s page for the complete inventory of posts.  D/s would be “easy” if we all lived in dungeons, didn’t have kids, and didn’t go to work. But, hey, we’re human and we do have kids and we do get sick and we work and sometimes we just aren’t fucking in the mood. That last one, I don’t really get a choice. (Mood doesn’t seem to be something Mr. D is really willing to let me get away with.) But, we spend a lot of time being parents and just being…

  • 30 Days of D/s,  Experience

    Rules in My D/s Relationship

    This post is #17 in my 30 Days of D/s series. If you’d like to read more, please visit my 30 Days of D/s page for the complete inventory of posts.  Friday night, He handed me an envelope. I felt a flutter of anticipation in my chest because I hoped it would be something to do with His expectations for me as His submissive, which it was. It began with a list of precepts. Precepts: I will obey His commands to the best of my ability. I will strive to overcome feelings of guilt or shame, and all inhibitions that interfere with my capability to serve Him and limit my…

  • 30 Days of D/s,  Experience,  Opinion

    When the Dom’s Away, the sub Will…

    This post is #16 in my 30 Days of D/s series. If you’d like to read more, please visit my 30 Days of D/s page for the complete inventory of posts.  Mr. D and I are not always together. We both work outside the home, and there are times when one or the other of us is out of town. So what will happen to our D/s dynamic when we’re apart? The feeling of being a submissive or a Dominant doesn’t just leave when the Dominant or submissive does. Our focus may shift. But our roles never change. Making this shift from being submissive (which happens on demand and when…

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