I will update these original rules, as posted April 19, 2019, as things change.
I will obey His commands to the best of my ability.
I will strive to overcome feelings of guilt or shame, and all inhibitions that interfere with my capability to serve Him and limit my growth as His submissive.
I will strive to maintain honest and open communication.
I will reveal my thoughts, feelings, and desires without hesitation or embarrassment.
I will inform Him of wants and perceived needs, recognizing that He is the sole judge of whether or how these shall be satisfied.
I will strive toward maintenance of a positive self-image and development of realistic expectations and goals.
I will work with Him to become a happier and more self-fulfilled individual.
I will trust Him to determine proper rewards and consequences.
I will work against negative aspects of my ego and my insecurities that would interfere with advancement of these aims.
1.I will maintain my journaling and mindfulness; there is never to be a day that passes (aside from Fridays) that I do not journal and/or meditate without my Dominant’s permission;
2.I will blog with vulnerability and honesty;
3.I will attend Yoga classes Tues/Thurs and workout Mon, Wed, Sat, and Sun; I will ask beforehand if I am unable to do so;
4.I must act upon sexual thoughts, finding and embracing my inner slut;
I must ask my Dominant to masturbate and must send a photo whenever I masturbate when He is away; I must tell my Dominant when I masturbate and send a photo each time that I do;
6.During masturbation I will practice my ability to squirt; at some point in the future I will need to demonstrate this ability to my Dominant when He asks me to do so. I will share my progress with my Dominant weekly, either through writing or orally;
7.I must sleep naked anytime my Dominant is in the bed with me;
8.I will keep myself clean shaven at all times;
9.Friday is “no panty day” and no lower undergarment may be worn on this day, even at work; my Dominant reserves the right to disallow or require other lingerie, as well;
10.I will send pictures and/or videos, of a sexual nature, to my Dominant at the rate of at least one per week. This clause is not connected to my duty to send a photo when I masturbate; under this I need only send a photo or video that I think my Dominant will enjoy. The source of the media may be whatever I choose (homemade or not); the purpose is to explore what turns me on;
11.I will, as an act of sexual service and self-reflection, find ways to chip at my existing sexual inhibitions. I will place myself outside of my comfort zone once per month. The acts need not be monumental and singular, but they should be well-planned and a product of my personal sexual growth and introspection;
12.I must keep my phone charged, on my person at all times and answer it, the only exception being for professional reasons;
13.On days when my Dominant is home in the morning (and awake) I will make Him coffee. On days when my Dominant is home during the evening, I must ask to fulfill His drink request.
14.I will begin serving under this contract by making a checklist of the weekly and monthly requirements so as not to forget or neglect any of them;
15.I will maintain my appearance with proper hair, makeup, and nails; I will grow my hair out.
16.I will keep the house in clean, orderly fashion;
17.I must respect my Dominant’s wishes when He tells me to stop being domestic and to sit;
18.I will be issued a weekly allowance, with the amount varying to reflect account balance and behavior;
19.Any time I make a purchase I will present the receipt to my Dominant, without fail, no exceptions;
- 20.I will keep my gas tank above 1/2 full at all times;