My D/s Rules

This document has been reviewed and is up to date as of May 2021.


I will obey His commands to the best of my ability.

I will strive to overcome feelings of fear or shame, along with any inhibitions that interfere with my capability to serve/follow Him and which will, in turn, limit my growth as His submissive.

I will strive to maintain honest and open communication.

I will reveal my thoughts, feelings, and desires without hesitation or embarrassment when prompted.

I will inform Him of my wants and needs, recognizing that He is the sole judge of whether or how these shall be satisfied.

I will strive toward a positive self-image and development of realistic self-expectations and goals.

I will work against negative aspects of my ego and my insecurities that would interfere with advancement of these aims.


Self-Improvement & Habits

I will maintain my blog with at least two posts per week, writing with vulnerability and honesty.

I will maintain my health.

I will keep my phone charged, on my person at all times, and answer it when my He calls or texts; the only exception being for professional reasons beyond my control.

I will keep my gas tank above 1/2 full at all times.

I will respect my Dominant’s wishes when He tells me to stop working.

Sexual Growth

I will act on/share my sexual thoughts, embracing my inner slut; I am to pay special attention to this rule.

At least once per month, I will practice my ability to squirt. I will need to demonstrate progress at my Dominant’s request. 

I will send pictures and/or videos, of a sexual nature, to my Dominant at least once per week. I need only send a photo or video that I think my Dominant will enjoy. The source of the media may be whatever I choose (homemade or not); the purpose is to explore and share what turns me on.

General Expectations

I will sleep naked anytime He is in the bed with me.

I will wear no panties on Friday (unless they are crotchless); my Dominant reserves the right to disallow or require other lingerie, as well.

I will keep the house in clean, orderly fashion.

Any time I make a purchase, I will present the receipt to my Dominant, without fail, no exceptions.


I will fulfill my Dominant’s drink requests and serve Him first at meals.

I will make sure my Dominant always has clean clothes for work and that everything is folded and ordered to His liking.

Sexual Service

I will place myself outside of my sexual comfort zone once per month by planning and performing an act of sexual service I believe my Dominant will enjoy.

I will initiate sex at least once per week.

Grooming & Appearance

I will shave no less than once per week.

I will maintain my appearance and keep my hair long.

Rewards & Consequences

I will be issued a weekly allowance, with the amount varying to reflect account balance and behavior.

I will trust my Dominant to determine proper rewards and consequences as necessary.

(The ones in PURPLE have been ignored for some time, and have therefore ceased to be a focus.)

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