• Experience,  My EJC Responses

    A long time coming

    It’s been a long damned time since the Mr. and I have been alone. Like, really alone. Not just locked in a bedroom away from the teenager for a half hour, biting our noises back through gritted teeth and controlling the slap of skin against skin. No spankings or screams or hairpulling for us…for many, many months. But now that the older folks in our family have been vaccinated, we can go back to our usual Fridays, sending the teenager off for some quality time with his grandparents. And, surprise on top of surprise, we found out that our local restaurants had opened, as well. It meant we had a wonderful…

  • Erotic Journal Challenge

    Erotic Journal Challenge: February Celebrations!

    Welcome to February! This year, the Erotic Journal Challenge theme is CELEBRATIONS! Because who couldn’t use a little more of that in their life? Before sharing my suggestions for this month, let me do a little shout out to the participants for January. Thank you to Sir Thomas, Floss, May, Missy, Morag, Mila, Julie, Marie, Mrs. K, and the barefoot sub for linking up. The posts I’d like to highlight are: “Celebrating Seduction” by Mrs. K and “Cervical Health: Get Checked!” by the barefoot sub. Both of these posts exhibited vulnerability in a way that always grabs me as a reader (and a human being). These are the kinds of…

  • Experience,  My EJC Responses

    Happy Hug Day!

    I’ve never been a big hugger. I like my space, and I’m not much for people– outside of my very tiny circle–touching me. But for the huggers out there, this pandemic has been a nightmare. I know…because I’ve actually felt the itch to touch people–outside of my very tiny circle. And if I have felt it, mindlessly attempted, and then recoiled in disappointment and confusion…what must those poor huggers be going through??!! Poor dears. I joke. But honestly, even though I’m not a hugger, it doesn’t mean I don’t love hugs. They are a powerful form of touch, and require so little. “A hug at the right moment and a kind shoulder to lean…

  • Erotic Journal Challenge

    Erotic Journal Challenge – January 2021

    Welcome to the first month of the Erotic Journal Challenge’s third year! This year, the theme is CELEBRATIONS! Because who couldn’t use a little more of that in their life? I’ve selected a few options to highlight below, but I am also including links to calendars that may give you further ideas. January Celebrations New Year’s Day! ​Cervical Health Awareness Month Self-Love Month HPV Prevention Week (Jan 24-30) Jan. 12 is Kiss a Ginger Day Jan. 21 is Hugging Day Jan. 26 is Spouses Day If none of these celebrations grab you, check out the following links to find more: The Awareness Days Events Calendar Daily Awareness Calendar Sexuality Observances…

  • Experience,  My EJC Responses,  Opinion

    The Dominant/submissive Scale

    D/s can be role play. Don’t get me wrong. Playing out a scene where someone is the Dominant party (like the professor) who ties up or spanks the submissive party (like the naughty student) can be perfectly satisfying. And there is nothing wrong with D/s being an occasional part of your sexual repertoire. But D/s can be more than role play. It can be a way of life. Dominance and submission are really just personality types. And there’s a sliding scale. I would wager that the vast majority of us are more or less one or the other (though it can be situational and can change in particular environments or with certain…

  • Experience,  My EJC Responses

    Finding my way back to good

    So I’ve been trying to improve my active submission this week. I’ve been lighting a candle when I get home in an effort to transition my brain from work day to home life (and, in effect, my role as sub). I’ll continue to hone this transitional ritual. After reflecting on my submissive identity, I also asked Mr. D if I could return to removing His boots when He gets home from work, which He seemed quite pleased with. It’s been a long time since I did this, and simply asking if I could do it was a step, since I’m terrible at asking for things that I want. I’m not…

  • My EJC Responses

    My perfect submissive

    There are many ways of being submissive, and the only thing that makes one more right or true than another is that it works for you and the person(s) with whom you share it. That being said, I often struggle with my own submission. It doesn’t always come easily. I can be contrary and moody, even downright disrespectful at times. But I’ve come to accept that this is not because I am a “bad submissive,” per se. It’s because I’m human. And we all fall short of our goals and expectations sometimes. There are certain qualities that I strive for. So let me describe the type of submissive I want to be, as a character…

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