• EROBLOPOMO

    #EROBLOPOMO 2021

    It’s that time again! Every year, NANOWRIMO (National Novel Writing Month) hangs over my head, making me, as a writer, feel like a bit of an unmotivated heel. So…last year, I came up with #EROBLOPOMO. (Yes, there is already a NABLOPOMO, but as a sex blogger, I always feel a bit uncomfortable coming to these vanilla writing parties. It’s like showing up in lingerie when everyone else is dressed in Puritan standard.) Since this is only the 2nd year, things are still just getting started. But, if you’d like to challenge yourself to writing a bit more in November, feel welcome and encouraged to join me.   Head over to…

  • 30 Dirty Questions,  EROBLOPOMO,  Experience

    An end-of-month update

    Well, I managed 21 posts this month. And though I didn’t answer all of my 30 Dirty Questions, I posted more this month than I normally do, so I’d still call #EROBLOPOMO a success. I plan to leave the 30 Dirty Questions up (linked in my projects), for future reference, so if you didn’t partake this month and would like to do them at another time, they will still be there. There is no reason you have to do them in one month and no particular set order, so use them as you please. The end of my month sort of got away from me. Our fridge went out, Thanksgiving…

  • 30 Dirty Questions,  EROBLOPOMO,  Experience

    The most daring thing I’ve done…

    Honestly, the most daring sexual activities I’ve ever gotten up to have happened as a result of swinging. Meeting people online, fucking on the first “date,” having sex in front of others…even out in the open where groups of people could just walk by and have an eyeful, naked hot tub time, group co-ed showers. It was really the open and wild sexual time in my life. There were things I liked about it and things I really hated about it. I had good experiences and bad. So for this question from 30 Dirty Questions, I’m providing a list of 5 old posts that take you back to our swinging…

  • 30 Dirty Questions,  EROBLOPOMO,  Experience

    The look (and sound) of good sex…

    I once had someone tell me I had the best “sex face” and that I made the best noises during sex. I’m not so sure. I’ve seen my face in the mirror, both while masturbating and while being fucked from behind over the bathroom counter. I, personally, think I look like I’m having a stroke. But then, I’m not a guy, and since I mostly fuck guys, one in particular, I guess what constitutes “good” isn’t really up to me. “Beauty” is, after all, in the eye of the beholder. Maybe it’s just because I give a good show (not that I’m faking…I can’t, and don’t, consider my facial expressions…

  • 30 Dirty Questions,  EROBLOPOMO

    Love Languages and Sex

    It’s been awhile since I took the Love Languages quiz, so I retook it for this post, and found that my results have changed a bit over the past few years. The last time I took this quiz, my top result was “Quality Time,” but probably due to experience, it has shifted to “Acts of Service.” (Which is kind of funny, since I’m supposed to be the submissive in this relationship.) Here’s what the site had to say about this particular result: “Can vacuuming the floors really be an expression of love? Absolutely! Anything you do to ease the burden of responsibilities weighing on an “Acts of Service” person will…

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