This is a follow-up piece to My submissive “Vision” I’ve always be drawn to quiet dominance in men…not the sort of loud, brazen “I’m in charge here” arrogance that can be mistaken for dominance. The type you can feel in your bones and see in His eyes. My Husband need not say a word for me…
I’m sorry to confess it, but honestly, I’m a fairweather submissive. I’m up for it when it’s easy, when I have the energy for it, the time for it…when it doesn’t ask too much of me. I have been such for a long time, and I’ve tried (sort of) time and again to be better.…
(Image is a stock photo…not me…but I really loved it and thought it was perfect for this post!) In a previous post, I wrote about having a vision for what kind of submissive I’d like to be. In a perfect world, with no interruptions or obligations outside of my relationship and all of the energy…
Almost every weekend, Mr. D and I have a “marriage talk” — a sort of state of the union, if you will. It’s an opportunity to discuss things that are bothering us or things we’d like to change, and one of the things that came up a few weekends ago is that we’re seeing a marked…
We have ideas about the way things “should” be…the way we wish or hope they could or will be at some point. Even if we know those things aren’t completely possible, we can use them as “visions,” something to move toward. After all, the journey is more important than the destination, and even though we…
…exists only in fiction and film. And fiction and film can be disheartening to those who wish to find an identity in the world of D/s. I may not be the one to give advice on submission, as I personally feel like I am wanting in this role, but I truly think it’s a journey…