Part of reclaiming my submission is falling back into place within our relationship. That means some changes that I’m used to and some changes I’ve never been good at. Service submission Thankfully, His main love language is Acts of Service, because I honestly believe that this is the type of submission I do best. Serving…
D/s can be role play. Don’t get me wrong. Playing out a scene where someone is the Dominant party (like the professor) who ties up or spanks the submissive party (like the naughty student) can be perfectly satisfying. And there is nothing wrong with D/s being an occasional part of your sexual repertoire. But D/s can…
Probably the best guidance I have ever come across regarding D/s is that there is no one true way…no particularly right way to do it. And I believe one of the gravest mistakes people can make when new to D/s is assume that there is. Of course there are good rules of thumb and things…
I LOVE foreplay. I’d say it’s my favorite part of a sexual experience (and honestly sometimes it has been better than the actual sex), but that’s not always true. The thing I like about foreplay is the build up. Foreplay can happen all day long…comments, texts, phone calls, glances…anything that assures or hints that sex…
Moving Images: I don’t watch much porn. I find it mostly disappointing, probably because of expect too much of it. But it certainly has its purpose, and I fall back on it in times of need, when I can’t summon the necessary fodder in my own imagination (which doesn’t happen all that often). I’ll be honest,…
I’m of two minds on this topic, moreso one than the other…so I’ll start with that one: I’ve never been one for affection in public. Not only does it make me uncomfortable to engage in it, but it also makes me uncomfortable to see it. I’m not talking little kisses and hugs…more like couples who…
When I was in college, I remember studying the Sapir-Whorf hypothesis, the theory that language determines thought. The hypothesis explains that we must draw from the lexicon we have, adding body language and tone to fine tune the messages we intend to communicate. If this hypothesis is correct, then our thoughts are bound by our…
“Each band or level, being a particular manifestation of the spectrum, is what it is only by virtue of the other bands. The color blue is no less beautiful because it exists along side the other colors of a rainbow, and “blueness” itself depends upon the existence of the other colors, for if there were…
There are a million and one good ways to relax, but I must say that masturbation is one of my top ten. Here are my top three reasons… It Helps Me sleep I usually find myself seeking it out right when I go to bed. It takes me less than 5 minutes to climax (10…
Having a public blog is somewhat like being in a relationship. In the beginning, it is tenuous and exciting. There is so much promise and hope and confusion and emotion. So much to build. However, it’s young, and if it doesn’t work out, there might be a few tears, but it can be rebuilt. The…