• 30 Days of D/s,  Experience,  My EJC Responses,  Photography

    I finally finished “30 Days of D/s” (and it only took 9 months!)

    Yesterday, I sent Him a text: “It’s no-panty Friday and I’m itching for your cock…and your hand on my ass…” Along with this image (which I also posted on Twitter): He didn’t say anything about it, and we just hung out on the couch drinking coffee, reading, and waiting for the youngster to head off to the movies with His friend (something that is causing more and more of an obstruction to our sex life as he gets older and becomes more aware). I even headed off to do some chores and fuck around on the internet in my writing cave. When suddenly, this text appeared: “I don’t like waiting.”…

  • 30 Days of D/s,  Experience,  Opinion

    Dominance – More than Meets the Eye

    This post is #29 in my 30 Days of D/s series. If you’d like to read more, please visit my 30 Days of D/s page for the complete inventory of posts. Dominance isn’t just a name. A person can call themselves “dominant” all damn day, but the traits of dominance are usually unspoken and can be both obvious and subtle. I’ll use Mr. D as an example. EYE CONTACT: When I first met Him, he was sitting at a table with friends at a bar where we had planned to meet. He left His friends when He saw me and we sat at another table alone. He stood tall, leaned forward, looked me…

  • 30 Days of D/s,  Experience,  My EJC Responses

    Realization

    This post is #28 in my 30 Days of D/s series. If you’d like to read more, please visit my 30 Days of D/s page for the complete inventory of posts. “There are years that ask questions and years that answer.” Zora Neale Hurston It’s one of my favorite quotes, simply because it so often applies to my life. And it came to mind again this morning after a late night conversation that turned epiphany for both myself and Mr. D. For years, we realized last night, we have been asking the wrong questions (and therefore searching for the wrong answers), to the detriment of our sex life and to the detriment of…

  • 30 Days of D/s,  Experience

    This is Not “Sub Frenzy”

    This post is #27 in my 30 Days of D/s series. If you’d like to read more, please visit my 30 Days of D/s page for the complete inventory of posts. As someone who deals with bi-polar disorder and completely understands the implications of manic behavior, I guess I’d have to admit that I can become frenetic about anything new: a project, a goal, a plan, and yes…a lifestyle. Though I wouldn’t say it’s a bad thing, necessarily, to be excited about the prospects of “new” endeavors, the “new” does tend to wear off pretty quickly for me. And I fear that. Because when it wears off, it often brings guilt and shame…

  • 30 Days of D/s,  Experience

    Trust

    This post is #26 in my 30 Days of D/s series. If you’d like to read more, please visit my 30 Days of D/s page for the complete inventory of posts. In any relationship, trust is paramount. It can be earned, lost, regained. Depending on who you are, you may trust easily, or not at all. And that affects how, when, and with whom you can sustain a partnership. I don’t trust easily. I was taught not to, verbally and on a fairly regular basis, by my father. Partly because of that, and partly because of my personality, I was always a one-friend-at-a-time kind of person when I was young. I had more…

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