• 30 Dirty Questions,  EROBLOPOMO

    Fantasies, Dreams, and Kink

    We all have proclivities, preferences, and prejudices…things we are drawn to, things that make us turn away or even disgust us. What do you tend to fantasize or dream about when it comes to sex? What kinds of porn or kink are you drawn to? What turns you off? For me… Fantasies I fantasize about things that are romantic and passionate and that involve a lot of touching and kissing and creative foreplay. And, I’ll be honest, I’m usually at the center of my fantasies, receiving, rather than giving…having things done to me or for me. For example, a fantasy of mine is to be bathed and rubbed and lotioned and fucked slowly and sensually…

  • 30 Dirty Questions,  EROBLOPOMO

    What are your sexual fears?

    I’m sort of like a feral cat when it comes to new sexual experiences. I have to be lured, convinced, prodded, bribed. But then, I’m sort of hard-wired to be suspicious of change and newness in all regards. I’m a fan of comfort, planning, and knowing what to expect (which is why we both get so bored in the bedroom and why our sex life has become so dull). That’s not to say that I don’t love a surprise from time to time. Presents are lovely. But a surprise party? Nope. That would do this introvert in. Surprising me with a multi-partner sexual experience? Terror. Putting me in any new…

  • 30 Dirty Questions,  EROBLOPOMO

    So, we have a sex therapist now…

    And the first session was actually surprisingly good. I’ll be honest,  after 4 crummy marriage counselors who just didn’t get us, it was refreshing to have one who had no trouble focusing on our problem, rather than “attachment issues.” We are plenty “attached.” But we do have issues with trust, resentment, communication, libido, and intimacy. And this guy grabbed those things right away in our individual sessions with some very pointed questions. He then used our joint session to craft a plan of attack. As a type A girl who loves lists and productivity, I was happy to leave with a collection of things to do over the two weeks…

  • 30 Dirty Questions,  EROBLOPOMO

    What do you want more of?

    Fingers entwined, holding each other on the couch, snuggling into your warmth, periodically kissing your bicep, breathing you in like a drug…that heady spin I get from a deep inhalation of your scent. Your arms wrapped around me at the end of the day, taking me in, blocking the world out…my cheek against your shoulder, or buried in your neck. Kisses held longer, at times no one expects…right before I leave for work, your tongue chasing mine, your hands on my breasts, on my cunt. Time alone, exploring each other’s souls and skin. Your hand twisted up in my hair, pulling…holding me down…words spoken hungrily through clenched teeth…your eyes, unblinking,…

  • 30 Dirty Questions,  EROBLOPOMO

    If I could go back and do it again…

    Oh, I would. Those early days with my husband were so primal and I was so utterly smitten from the start. I spent the majority of my time, heart racing, body tingling, in a fog of blissful, sexually-tinged euphoria. So when our sex therapist (yes, we have one of those now) told us that one thing we needed to change was our perception of each other as man and wife, and rather, go back to seeing ourselves as boyfriend and girlfriend, it sort of made sense. Those were, after all, the carefree days of “new” and “exciting”. They days when we were trying to impress one another, working to keep…

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