I’ve had a few different pen names as a blogger over the years. For obvious (and not so obvious) reasons, I’m not about to put my real name out there. I can’t even remember what name I used when I began this sex blogging journey some 12+ years ago now, but I finally settled on…
So….after a long night of thinking, some sleep, and kind advice from friends, I have figured out what has gone wrong with the EJC. I let it slip away from what it was intended to be. It’s supposed to be EROTIC. Or at least related to sex and sexuality and intimacy. And it’s a Journal.…
I’ve decided to hang up the Erotic Journal Challenge for now. It may come back at some point in some new way, but for now, I have a better idea that I think will work better for where many of us are as writers and people these days. Coming March 13th What is it? A…
I put a lot of work into this blog and it’s connected projects. Maybe too much for the return. And when I find myself feeling disgruntled, frustrated, or stressed out by it, I have to take a step back. I don’t get paid for this. The sole purpose of this blog is to connect with…
If you bring your sexual impulses to your creative work… you’ll be working from deep in the genetic code, down where life wants to make new life and feel good in the process. –Eric Maisel When I edit photos for this site, so much goes on in my eye and brain and heart. I look…
Today is the Winter Solstice, the longest night of the year, and the night that marks the return of the sun – in effect, tonight is the sun’s birthday…and that is certainly something to celebrate. (Of course, in the Pacific Northwest, our worst weather tends to come in January and February, but at least spring…
November is EROBLOPOMO! (Erotic Blog Posting Month)… or so I have declared. I know we already have NANOWRIMO, which is awesome, but what if you don’t want to write a novel, or don’t have time to whip out 30,000 words this month? And I know there is also NABLOPOMO, but what if you want to share…
Much like it’s predecessors NANOWRIMO and NABLOPOMO, EROBLOPOMO will be a month-long PERSONAL writing challenge. Here are some things to do to prepare: 1. Make sure you have a space to write. If you don’t already have a blog, start one (you can do this free on Blogger, WordPress, and a host of other platforms).…
It’s supposed to be private right? Between you and that special someone (or at least between you and that FWB or one-night-stand). Not something you go blabbing about around the water cooler or publishing on the internet. But, many of us do it, anyway. So why? Why do I blog about my sex life for…
I, and several other bloggers I follow, seem to have been sort of at a place of reckoning when it comes to our blogs…focusing on getting back to our “roots,” so to speak. But then, of course, you need to know what your roots were/are to do that. And maybe some of you have never…