Well, I managed 21 posts this month. And though I didn’t answer all of my 30 Dirty Questions, I posted more this month than I normally do, so I’d still call #EROBLOPOMO a success. I plan to leave the 30 Dirty Questions up (linked in my projects), for future reference, so if you didn’t partake…
Honestly, the most daring sexual activities I’ve ever gotten up to have happened as a result of swinging. Meeting people online, fucking on the first “date,” having sex in front of others…even out in the open where groups of people could just walk by and have an eyeful, naked hot tub time, group co-ed showers.…
I once had someone tell me I had the best “sex face” and that I made the best noises during sex. I’m not so sure. I’ve seen my face in the mirror, both while masturbating and while being fucked from behind over the bathroom counter. I, personally, think I look like I’m having a stroke.…
It’s been awhile since I took the Love Languages quiz, so I retook it for this post, and found that my results have changed a bit over the past few years. The last time I took this quiz, my top result was “Quality Time,” but probably due to experience, it has shifted to “Acts of…
We all have proclivities, preferences, and prejudices…things we are drawn to, things that make us turn away or even disgust us. What do you tend to fantasize or dream about when it comes to sex? What kinds of porn or kink are you drawn to? What turns you off? For me… Fantasies I fantasize about things that are romantic and…
I’m sort of like a feral cat when it comes to new sexual experiences. I have to be lured, convinced, prodded, bribed. But then, I’m sort of hard-wired to be suspicious of change and newness in all regards. I’m a fan of comfort, planning, and knowing what to expect (which is why we both get…
And the first session was actually surprisingly good. I’ll be honest, after 4 crummy marriage counselors who just didn’t get us, it was refreshing to have one who had no trouble focusing on our problem, rather than “attachment issues.” We are plenty “attached.” But we do have issues with trust, resentment, communication, libido, and intimacy.…
Fingers entwined, holding each other on the couch, snuggling into your warmth, periodically kissing your bicep, breathing you in like a drug…that heady spin I get from a deep inhalation of your scent. Your arms wrapped around me at the end of the day, taking me in, blocking the world out…my cheek against your shoulder,…
Oh, I would. Those early days with my husband were so primal and I was so utterly smitten from the start. I spent the majority of my time, heart racing, body tingling, in a fog of blissful, sexually-tinged euphoria. So when our sex therapist (yes, we have one of those now) told us that one…
This poem’s structure was borrowed from Mary Oliver’s poem Gratitude. Last Night What did you notice? The dim light from the nightstand lamp created a spotlight effect holding us in a full moon on the stage of our bed. The rest of the world became darkness, shadowed corners like faceless voyeurs silently watching. What did…