Archive
January 2022
- 21: Flash Fiction Friday #20
- 20: Yes and No
- 17: The inevitable slow down…
- 17: E-lust #145
- 16: 3 things I appreciate about my lover
- 14: Flash Fiction Friday #19
- 11: Consistent
- 09: The Sex Life I Crave
- 08: A Journey of a Thousand Miles…
- 07: Flash Fiction Friday #18
- 06: Hot Chocolate
- 06: Threesome?
- 05: Looking Back to Plan Forward
- 04: Snow Day!
- 03: TMI Tuesday
- 02: State of the Union
- 01: What Feels Good?
December 2021
- 31: New Year’s Intentions
- 31: Flash Fiction Friday #17
- 30: Played Like a Fiddle
- 30: Restructuring
- 30: The Erotic Journal Challenge 2022
- 29: Brigit: Unwrapped – Orange is the Happiest Color
- 29: #UnwrapMe – It’s not the end!
- 29: 2022 Blog Plans, Projects, and Features
- 28: My Top 10 Posts of the Year
- 27: Developments
- 21: Solstice
- 17: Thank You
- 17: Flash Fiction Friday #16
- 16: O Tannenbaum
- 16: Prayer
- 15: Light and Dark
- 14: Snowy Woods
- 14: Blue
- 14: Fear
- 13: #UnwrapMe – Day 13
- 13: Keeping the candle lit
- 11: Trouble in Paradise
- 10: Smile
- 09: Joy in Accomplishment
- 08: Compliments
- 07: Be kind to yourself
- 06: Submissive Triggers
- 05: My Album/Artist of the Year
- 04: The Greatest Reward
- 03: Wise Words
- 03: Flash Fiction Friday #15
- 02: The Good Perfume
- 01: Erotic poems, love letters, and sexy lingerie
November 2021
- 30: Waiting
- 29: #UnwrapMe (a preview of what’s to come)
- 28: A Stolen Moment
- 28: The Submissive’s Advent Calendar
- 27: Green Day
- 26: Flash Fiction Friday #14
- 19: Flash Fiction Friday #13
- 18: The Island Inside
- 11: Flash Fiction Friday #12
- 07: #loveletter 7
- 06: The Early Bird
- 06: #loveletter 6
- 05: #loveletter 5
- 04: Flash Fiction Friday #11
- 04: #loveletter 4
- 03: #loveletter 3
- 02: Meow
- 02: #loveletter 2
- 01: #loveletter 1
October 2021
- 31: #EROBLOPOMO2021 Theme: #loveletter
- 28: Flash Fiction Friday #10
- 28: Moonwalking
- 24: The Fall
- 24: #EROBLOPOMO 2021
July 2021
- 22: Heading Off Grid
- 16: Flash Fiction Friday #9
- 09: Flash Fiction Friday #8
- 04: Fireworks
- 03: Is masturbation selfish?
- 03: In Shadow
- 02: Flash Fiction Friday #7
- 02: Corruption
- 01: Submerged
June 2021
- 25: Flash Fiction Friday #6
- 22: Limbo
- 20: What are your thoughts on gender and sexual identity?
- 18: Clean
- 18: Flash Fiction Friday #4
- 11: Flash Fiction Friday #3
- 06: Describe Your Lovemap
- 06: How will you die?
- 05: Britney – A guest review from Mr. D (with interjections from Brigit)
- 05: Saturday (a wrap-up of sorts)
- 05: The Bridge
- 04: #boobday is a good day
- 04: Flash Fiction Friday #2
May 2021
- 30: The Spoon (a tale of forgone punishment)
- 30: The Mind/Body Connection
- 30: Explore your early memories of sex & sexuality
- 29: Have you checked out my projects?
- 28: The Mute
- 28: On singing out loud, nekkid pitchers, and boobs
- 27: Life outside my comfort zone
- 27: Flash Fiction Friday (revived!)
- 23: Explore your inhibitions
- 23: When did you last sing?
- 21: A perfect day…
- 19: Growing together in harmony = Good communication
- 18: Being honest about desire and sexual growth
- 16: How did you learn about sex?
- 16: What would constitute a perfect day for you?
- 15: Cumming Home
- 15: Initiating sex (active submission)
- 14: It’s been a week…so far
- 10: The Stranger (part 10)
- 09: Three Wishes
- 09: Are you a planner, or are you spontaneous?
- 09: Keep the fame
- 08: Happy #boobday
- 08: A much needed break and new set of routines
- 03: The Stranger (part 9)
- 02: What do you like most about your partner?
- 02: Would you want to be famous?
- 02: The precipice…
April 2021
- 30: Zappai
- 30: Ya-du
- 29: Xiaoshi
- 28: Waka
- 26: Utendi
- 25: What sexual changes would you like to make?
- 25: Who would be your dinner guest?
- 25: Breaking Bad Habits & Finding Motivation
- 24: School Girl
- 24: Rico: Our New Sex Doll
- 23: Tricube
- 22: Sijo
- 21: Rhupunt
- 20: Quatern
- 19: The Stranger (part 8)
- 19: Palindrome
- 18: Ottava Rima
- 17: Some things never get old…
- 17: What’s your fantasy language?
- 17: Nonet
- 17: Do you find anything distressing about sex?
- 17: What’s your favorite thing to eat?
- 16: Magic 9
- 15: I’m (not) afraid (anymore)
- 15: Lai
- 14: Things that make me feel sexy
- 14: He is the sun
- 13: Kimo
- 12: The Stranger (part 7)
- 12: Jueju
- 11: Imayo
- 10: What’s your favorite season?
- 10: What part of (your) sexuality is the most mysterious to you?
- 10: Hay(na)ku
- 09: #boobday
- 09: My dog can’t handle it when He spanks me
- 09: Ghazal
- 08: Flamenca
- 08: My Style: Classic, Casual & Reserved
- 08: Echo Verse
- 07: A “good girl” is always available
- 07: Dominance and the Power of Command
- 07: Descort
- 06: Cascade
- 06: A quick walk down (sexy) (musical) memory lane
- 05: The Stranger (part 6)
- 05: Bop
- 04: Emotional Health and Submission
- 04: Ae Freislighe
- 03: What’s your sexual style?
- 03: What’s your personal style?
- 02: Welcome back, #boobday!
- 02: 3 things almost everyone fantasizes about
March 2021
- 30: The Stranger (part 5)
- 28: Date Night & Sex Therapy
- 27: What was the last thing you read?
- 27: Misconceptions
- 26: Music to Fuck To
- 26: Tell Me What You Want
- 25: Two Truths and a Lie
- 24: Aiming to Belong Instead of Trying to Fit In
- 23: The Stranger (part 4)
- 21: The Sweet Spot
- 20: What role does kink and fantasy play in your sex life?
- 20: What type of music are you into?
- 20: 5 legitimate ways to kick start your libido
- 18: The State of Our Sexual Union
- 17: Mistakes were made…
- 15: Origin of my pen name
- 14: The Stranger (part 3)
- 14: What is a Soft Dom?
- 13: A day of rest…
- 12: Strong foundations allow for growth
- 11: Mouth
- 11: How’s your sex life?
- 11: What’s your favorite way to spend a day off?
- 09: Soul Mate
- 08: The Stranger (part 2)
- 07: Community
- 07: Erotic Journal Challenge (after the epiphany & some help from friends)
- 06: tell me something true
- 06: What’s the point of all this?
- 04: The Stranger
- 02: Who Decides the Foundations of a D/s Relationship?
- 01: Identifying each other’s fantasies (part 2)
February 2021
- 28: February Photofest 2021 Wrap-up
- 28: The Erotic Journal Challenge goes WEEKLY (again)
- 28: The Erotic Book Club: March 2021
- 26: Reflective
- 25: Porn in the shower
- 24: Stripes & Polka Dots
- 23: Identifying each other’s fantasies
- 19: TGIF
- 18: Quick Release
- 17: Connection
- 16: Home Base
- 15: Mood
- 14: Love’s Language
- 12: Fuck It Friday
- 11: A Slow Striptease 4
- 11: Ties that Bind
- 10: A Slow Striptease 3
- 09: A Slow Striptease 2
- 08: A Slow Striptease 1
- 07: A long time coming
- 07: Texture
- 05: Pinched
- 04: Bubbles
- 03: Pink Panties
- 02: Coffee
- 01: Hands
- 01: Erotic Journal Challenge: February Celebrations!
January 2021
- 31: Post Run Strip & January Wrap-up
- 30: The Fantasy Box (an intimate review)
- 29: Pretty Things
- 28: Sex Stats
- 26: Intoxication
- 24: Freshly Fucked
- 24: Monochromerotic #26: Violet Chevron
- 24: #boobday!
- 23: Erotic Book Club – February 2021
- 23: Erotic Book Club – January 2021 Discussion
- 23: 24/7 D/s = just our way of life
- 21: Happy Hug Day!
- 20: What can I do for you?
- 19: Mental Switch – releasing control and managing focus as a submissive
- 17: Celebrating the Whole Picture
- 16: Submission Saturday
- 14: Asking
- 13: What I want as a submissive
- 12: Seeking Perfection vs. Creating a Vision
- 11: In the Dark
- 11: Sex Therapy Update
- 08: Hormone Therapy: The Adventure Begins
- 07: Prologue 2021
- 06: Submission is new every day
December 2020
- 31: Erotic Journal Challenge – January 2021
- 31: I’m going on an adventure!
- 30: There are a hundred ways…
- 29: Erotic Book Club – The January 2021 Selection
- 29: Join me in a (re)discovery of submission
- 28: Erotic Book Club – December 2020 Discussion
- 23: A Naughty Christmas Pudding
- 23: Falling into place (types of submission)
- 22: Putting in the work
- 21: The Turning Point
- 20: Erotic Book Club – December 2020 “The Naughty List”
- 19: Surrender
- 18: The Dominant/submissive Scale
- 17: Finding my way back to good
- 16: My perfect submissive
- 15: Elves on the Shelf (a Euph-off Christmas Edition tale)
- 15: Submissives have needs, too
- 14: When are you most aware of your own submission?
- 11: My Submissive Identity
- 11: Active Submission
- 09: Submission is its own reward
- 08: It’s time to clean my dirty laundry
- 07: Soccer Practice Quickie
- 06: December 2020 Erotic Poetry Challenge
- 04: New to D/s? Where should you start?
- 03: Just Be
- 02: Anticipate
- 01: December’s Erotic Journal Challenge – “Advent”
- 01: An end-of-month update
November 2020
- 22: View from the rear…
- 20: The most daring thing I’ve done…
- 19: The look (and sound) of good sex…
- 18: Trust Issues
- 17: Love is like riding a bicycle…
- 15: Love Languages and Sex
- 15: Feeling good in my own skin
- 14: Cozy
- 14: Fantasies, Dreams, and Kink
- 13: What are your sexual fears?
- 12: So, we have a sex therapist now…
- 11: What do you want more of?
- 10: If I could go back and do it again…
- 08: Last Night
- 07: Metamorphosis
- 06: How do you revive foreplay? (20 Ideas)
- 05: What are your thoughts on porn?
- 04: What do you think about when you masturbate?
- 03: What are your turn-ons and turn-offs?
- 02: What are your thoughts on PDA/kink in public?
- 01: What makes sex better than good?
- 01: November Erotic Poetry Challenge: “Grateful, Thankful, Blessed”
October 2020
- 31: 30 Dirty Questions
- 29: The Trouble with Mischief
- 27: Crucible
- 26: Listening to Heal
- 25: Demon Lover
- 25: Sheared
- 25: #EROBLOPOMO 2020
- 25: EROBLOPOMO is coming!
- 24: Momentum
- 23: Change
- 22: Moonlit
- 21: Blush
- 20: Vulnerable
- 19: In the Dark
- 18: Without Color
- 17: An Overcast Fall Day
- 04: October’s Erotic Poetry Challenge: “Halloween”
- 04: October’s Erotic Journal Challenge: “Mischievous”
September 2020
- 29: Leaning In
- 23: A Smoother Shore
- 21: Drowning My Way Back to the Surface
- 17: My life in haiku
- 14: I’m still here…
- 01: September’s Erotic Poetry Challenge: Haiku
- 01: September’s Erotic Journal Challenge: “Prioritized”
August 2020
- 12: August’s Erotic Poetry Challenge: “Magnetic Poetry”
- 11: August’s Erotic Journal Challenge: “Lustful”
July 2020
- 22: Lessons from the Mat: Floating
- 15: Brigit’s Diary: Time to Discuss the Old Libido…Again
- 15: #tinypoem
- 13: The Pros and Cons of Labels for Sexual Identity
- 12: Why I Blog About My Sex Life
- 11: Brigit’s Favorite Things #18
- 10: Part 9: “The Disappearance of Emily Bennett”
- 08: Incomparable
- 05: Delta of Venus
- 04: Brigit’s Diary: “Baby, You’re a Firework…”
June 2020
- 30: July’s Erotic Journal Challenge: “Inspired”
- 30: July’s Erotic Poetry Challenge: “Poems as Inspiration”
- 30: Girls
- 28: Reaching
- 27: Relax…Let It Go…Walk Away…Find Your Peace…
- 26: Blue
- 24: Surrender
- 22: Establishing Your “Why” So You Can Determine Your “What” and “How”
- 21: Brigit’s Diary: The Difficulty of Body Hair
- 21: Stories Matter
- 20: Masturbating to Relax
- 20: Brigit’s Favorite Things #17
- 18: Lessons from the Mat: The Paradox of Intimacy
- 17: The Sleeping Saint of Nevers
- 16: Brigit’s Diary: “A Lukewarm Mess”
- 15: Libido: Motivation vs. Momentum
- 14: Following Instructions
- 13: It’s hard for me to write this…
- 11: Lessons from the Mat: All You Ever Have
- 10: Life in Pink
- 09: Zero Fucks Given
- 08: My Libido is a Feral Cat
- 07: Conception
- 06: Inferno
- 05: June Erotic Poetry Challenge: “Movies”
- 04: Silenced
- 03: The Erotic Poetry Challenge: “Craft”
- 02: The truth is…
- 01: Hello, June…we meet again…
- 01: Erotic Journal Challenge – “Relaxed”
May 2020
- 20: Will I ever wear real clothes again?
- 19: Step One
- 13: Are you there, Brigit? It’s me…
- 05: New Moon
- 04: Smut Marathon Round 4 Feedback
- 03: The Erotic Journal Challenge: “Love (and Life) in the Time of Corona”
- 03: Unedited – Sinful Sunday
April 2020
- 15: I Swallow
- 09: Sleep
- 07: The Garden
- 06: Come
- 05: Elegy for Innocence
- 05: Sinful (“Stay at Home”) Sunday
- 05: Smut Marathon – Round 3 Feedback
- 04: Dawn
- 03: Clubbing
- 02: Vasoline
- 01: The Image Poet
March 2020
- 31: Blue
- 29: Erotic Journal Challenge: April 2020 “Receptive”
- 29: April Poetry Challenge 2020
- 23: The Four Foundations of Mindfulness
- 22: Photographs (revisited)
- 17: My “Vision” of Dominance
- 11: The Tenant – 1941
- 10: Fairweather submissive
- 10: My Submissive “Vision”
- 08: Smut Marathon – Round 2 Feedback
- 07: Eating Out
- 07: Final February Photofest Faves
- 04: D/s as a Regular Show of Faith
- 04: Fact vs. Fiction in D/s
- 02: The Perfect Submissive…
February 2020
- 29: The Erotic Journal Challenge: March 2020 “Curious”
- 29: Final February Photofest/Sinful Sunday
- 28: February Photofest Day 28
- 27: February Photofest Day 27
- 26: February Photofest Day 26
- 25: Reliant
- 25: February Photofest Day 25
- 24: February Photofest Day 24
- 23: Sexy Slave – Ella Dual Vibrating Dildo
- 23: February Photofest Day 23
- 23: My Favorite February Photofest Images (week 3)
- 22: February Photofest Day 22
- 21: February Photofest Day 21
- 20: February Photofest Day 20 (Throwback Thursday)
- 19: February Photofest Day 19
- 18: February Photofest Day 18 (& LiFE Week 57)
- 17: February Photofest Day 17
- 16: Enlove Bullet Vibe
- 16: Smut Marthon Round 1 Feedback
- 16: My Favorite February Photofest Images (week 2)
- 15: February Photofest Day 15/Sinful Sunday (by Mr. D)
- 14: February Photofest Day 14
- 13: February Photofest Day 13
- 13: Love Letter
- 12: February Photofest Day 12
- 11: February Photofest Day 11
- 10: February Photofest Day 10
- 09: My Favorite February Photofest Images (week 1)
- 08: February Photofest Day 8
- 07: February Photofest Day 7
- 06: February Photofest Day 6
- 05: February Photofest Day 5
- 04: Existential
- 04: February Photofest Day 4
- 03: Mindfulness Monday – A Mindful Sex Tracking App
- 03: February Photofest Day 3
- 02: The Zumio S: Pleasure or Pain?
- 02: Lacking Privacy is Hard on a Sex Life
- 02: February Photofest Day 2
- 01: February Photofest Day 1
January 2020
- 30: The Erotic Journal Challenge: February 2020 “Sensuality/Sexuality”
- 28: Telling My Inner Critic to Fuck Off
- 27: Self-Service: The Art of Female Masturbation
- 22: Neon
- 21: Curating Our Destinies through Good Time-Management
- 20: The Ghost in the Window
- 20: Defining “Mindful Marriage”
- 19: Luck Is Not Chance
- 16: The Mind-Body-Breath Connection
- 14: There’s No Place Like Home
- 13: The Mark of Pain
- 09: Refilling the Lingerie Bins with Things I Love
- 06: How I Plan My Goals & Schedule in 6 Steps
- 06: Being Mindful of Negative Traits that Hinder Submission
- 05: A note about mindfulness and goals (and submission)
- 02: Time is Not Infinite
- 01: A “30 Days of Yoga” Challenge You Will Love!
December 2019
- 30: The Desire Map Planner: Put Your Soul on the Agenda
- 29: The Jeusn “Anal Dragon”
- 29: Filtered, but only a little
- 28: I finally finished “30 Days of D/s” (and it only took 9 months!)
- 26: The Erotic Journal Challenge: January 2020 – “Mindful”
- 26: Developing a Submissive Mindset: Tracking Rules
- 26: Developing a Submissive Mindset: Asking Permission
- 25: A Naughty Christmas Pudding
- 22: Pipedream’s Wall Banger Double Penetrator
- 22: Christmas Cheer
- 22: My most popular posts of 2019
- 21: My Top 10 of 2019
- 19: A New Favorite Bra
- 17: Journal: A Promise to Be Naughtier
- 16: Journal: Finding our Rhythm
- 15: Blog Goals for 2020
- 15: Youyi Rabbit Vibrator
- 12: The Space Between
- 11: Why Missionary is My Favorite Position
- 05: Accolades, Smut Marathon, and a “Regular Features” Update
- 04: Sorry, Not Sorry
- 01: The Erotic Journal Challenge – December (Endings & Beginnings)
- 01: Super Fun Little VēDo “Ayu Finger Vibes”
November 2019
- 08: Sex as a Reset
- 04: Worth More than My Last Twenty
- 01: The Erotic Journal Challenge – NOVEMBER (Gratitude)
October 2019
- 29: Journal (Nesting…and Hitting the Reset Button)
- 16: Reclamation
- 13: My New Favorite Vibrator: The Simplicity Rabbit G-Spot Vibrator
- 13: Brigit’s Favorite Things (#16)
- 08: The Purge: Saying Goodbye (or hello again) to Old Lingerie
- 07: Journal: Revisiting and Revising D/s
- 06: Why I don’t kiss like I used to (and why I absolutely should)
- 05: Hell to Pay
- 05: Brigit’s Favorite Things (#15)
- 04: Journal: (a rule that isn’t enforced isn’t a rule)
- 03: I need new lingerie!!
- 01: You’re not alone…
September 2019
- 30: Aging and Masturbation
- 29: Journal 9/29/19
- 29: Electric
- 28: The Erotic Journal Challenge – OCTOBER (Fear, Insecurity, Anxiety, and Self-Doubt)
- 28: Bedtime Stories 3: “Traffic Stop” (Audio/Podcast)
- 28: Smutathon
- 24: Journal 9/24/2019
- 23: Journal 9/23/2019 a.m.
- 22: Smut Marathon (quarter-finals) Feedback
- 21: Journal 9/21/2019 a.m.
- 18: Frigid
- 17: Journal 9/17/2019 a.m.
- 16: Journal 9/16/2019 a.m.
- 15: Journal 9/15/2019 p.m.
- 14: Journal 9/14/2019 a.m.
- 13: Journal 9/13/2019 a.m.
- 11: Painted Red
- 09: In Need of Ritual
- 04: September is Erotic Journal Challenge “Catch-up Month”
August 2019
- 20: Rituals & Routines
- 19: Train Jumping
- 18: A moving truck full of blocks
- 16: The Essence of My Erotic Being
- 15: Finding My Erotic Self through the Words of Anaïs Nïn
- 14: A Metaphor for the Erotic Self
- 13: A Bold Move (Considering Sacred Spaces)
- 13: The Erotic Journal Challenge – “13-Day Retreat”
- 09: Part 8: “The Disappearance of Emily Bennett”
- 04: Erotic Journal Challenge #28: “Sexual Positions”
July 2019
- 28: All of Me
- 28: The Erotic Journal Challenge #27: What do you love most about your sex life…?
- 26: Part 7: “The Disappearance of Emily Bennett”
- 24: Punishment’s Emerging Role in our Relationship
- 23: Stay
- 23: Mental Health’s Impact on Sex Drive (revisited)
- 21: A Proper Tit Drop
- 21: The Erotic Journal Challenge #26: “Vows”
- 19: Part 6: “The Disappearance of Emily Bennett”
- 18: Bedtimes Stories 2: “The Tenant – 1941” (audio/podcast)
- 18: He Cheated…and I Forgave Him
- 17: Go ahead, give in to The Siren’s song…
- 14: Smut Marathon Round 6 – My Vote, Thoughts, and Advice for the Next Round
- 13: The Erotic Journal Challenge #25: “Mental Health”
- 09: The “Crazy” Cycle
- 09: Objects of Desire
- 08: Erotic Journal Challenge # 24: “Hormones”
- 08: “The Joker” G-Spot/Finger/Tongue Vibrator from Fondlove
- 04: Humiliation as a Reset
- 03: Bedtime Stories #1: “Eating Out” (audio/podcast)
- 03: Morning Light
- 02: Getting past the blank page
June 2019
- 29: The Erotic Journal Challenge #23: Body Love (part 2)
- 22: The Erotic Journal Challenge #22: Body Love (part 1)
- 13: Part 5: “The Disappearance of Emily Bennett”
- 10: Changes
- 09: Leaf Vibrator from Bestvibe
- 08: Original Sin
- 08: Brigit’s Favorite Things (#13/2019)
- 08: The Erotic Journal Challenge #21: “Gratitude”
- 06: Part 4: “The Disappearance of Emily Bennett”
- 05: Sometimes…
- 04: Facing Fears to Invite Possibility
- 03: Dominance – More than Meets the Eye
- 02: Realization
- 02: Love is a Sacrement
- 01: The Erotic Journal Challenge: Catch-up Week #2
May 2019
- 30: Fog
- 30: 7 Blogging Landmarks & 7 Future Blogging Plans
- 30: Part 3 – The Disappearance of Emily Bennett
- 28: This is Not “Sub Frenzy”
- 26: Iceberg
- 26: Gratitude
- 25: Trust
- 25: The Erotic Journal Challenge #20: “Aging”
- 23: Pretty in Pink
- 23: Part 2 – The Disappearance of Emily Bennett
- 22: Rituals & Reminders to Keep the Submissive Flame Burning (w/Reader’s Forum)
- 21: 24/7 D/s (Weaknesses & First Punishment)
- 20: Jekyll & Hyde
- 19: Simplicity
- 18: The Erotic Journal Challenge #19: “Embarrassed”
- 18: Brigit’s Favorite Things (#12/2019)
- 16: Unbound
- 16: The Disappearance of Emily Bennett
- 14: My Biggest Turn-on
- 13: Sexual Availability
- 12: Neon Lights
- 12: Never Again
- 11: Brigit’s Favorite Things (#11/2019)
- 11: Please Spank Me, Daddy….
- 11: The Erotic Journal Challenge #18: “Turn-ons”
- 06: Unexpected
- 05: Midnight at the Oasis
- 05: My Smut Marathon Thoughts- Round 4 (“Eavesdropping”)
- 04: The Erotic Journal Challenge #17: “Never Again”
- 02: Readers’ Forum: Do You Use Orgasm Control?
- 01: Working Through the Interruptions
April 2019
- 30: D/s Doesn’t Always (or Ever) Have to Be About Sex
- 29: Processing Emotions about Polyamory
- 28: Learning to Fly
- 27: That’s a Powerful Little Sucker! (Paloqueth “Clitoral Sucking Vibrator”)
- 27: The Erotic Journal Challenge #16: “Confession”
- 24: When Sub Duties Become Irritating
- 23: Real Life D/s
- 22: Preparation
- 21: Rules in My D/s Relationship
- 20: Brigit’s Favorite Things (#10/2019)
- 20: The Erotic Journal Challenge #15: “Risk”
- 18: When the Dom’s Away, the sub Will…
- 17: How He Accepted My Submission
- 16: It begins with an offering of submission
- 15: Pain
- 14: My Sexual Aspirations
- 14: Twilight is Watching
- 14: D/s Doesn’t Mean Leaving Vanilla Behind
- 13: The Erotic Journal Challenge #14: “Realization”
- 11: Consent: The Difference Between Abuse and BDSM
- 10: “Stop” is My Safe Word
- 09: What Are Your Limits?
- 08: Handling Negative Emotions in My D/s Relationship
- 07: Is Confidence at the Root of Good Communication?
- 06: Sexiness is a State of Mind
- 06: Conflict in a D/s Relationship
- 06: The Erotic Journal Challenge #13: “Wishes”
- 05: Brigit’s Favorite Things (#9/2019)
- 05: Smut Marathon 2019: My Thoughts (and Vote) for Round 3
- 05: Discipline, Punishment, and Correction in a D/s Relationship
- 04: Signs
- 04: Contracts & Negotiation in a D/s Relationship
- 03: What’s in a Name? (How D/s Labels Can Help Us Find Ourselves)
- 02: Nude
- 02: What Submission Means to Me
- 01: 14 Qualities of a “Good” Dominant
March 2019
- 31: A Letter to the Man Before
- 30: Brigit’s Favorite Things (#8/2019)
- 30: The Erotic Journal Challenge #12: “Sexy”
- 27: Should We Go Back to D/s? Can We? And How?
- 24: Sex Ed Should Last Forever
- 23: The Erotic Journal Challenge “Catch Up” Week!
- 23: Dance Lessons
- 21: My Top 15 Take-aways from Eroticon 2019
- 16: Freshly Laundered
- 16: The Erotic Journal Challenge #11: “Sex Ed”
- 10: Eroticon or Bust
- 09: My Aphrodisiac – 4 of My Favorite Erotic Films
- 09: The Erotic Journal Challenge #10: “First Love”
- 09: Brigit’s Favorite Things (#7/2019)
- 08: Smut Marathon (my thoughts on round 2)
- 05: Why it’s ironic that I’m a sex blogger
- 03: A Book-ish History of Sexual Education
- 03: Self-Service
- 03: Brigit’s Favorite Things (#6/2019) – The February Photofest Edition
- 03: The Erotic Journal Challenge #9: “Watching”
- 01: Looking Back
February 2019
- 28: Pandora’s Box: A History of Experimentation, Fear, and Insecurity
- 27: His Hands
- 26: FPF Day 25 – Converse & Socks
- 25: But First, Coffee – part two
- 24: Presenting (Sinful Sunday & FPF #24)
- 24: FPF Day 23 – Where the Magic Happens
- 24: 2019 Eroticon Virtual Meet and Greet
- 24: The Erotic Journal Challenge #8: “Reading”
- 23: FPF Day 22 – Red Wine and Carrion
- 22: FPF Day 21 – Handfuls
- 21: FPF Day 20 (and LiFE) – “Purple”
- 21: What I hate about porn
- 19: FPF Day 19 – “In Bed”
- 18: FPF 18 – “Red”
- 18: 4 Sexual “Likes” I Don’t Like to Talk About
- 18: “Criss-Cross” (FPF #17/Sinful Sunday)
- 18: But First, Coffee
- 17: Know your audience, your craft, and trust yourself
- 17: FPF Day 16 – A Rainy Saturday
- 16: The Erotic Journal Challenge #7: “Distress”
- 16: Lock, Stock, and Barrel
- 15: FPF 15: Softness in Sepia
- 15: F4TF “Touch”
- 15: A Different Kind of Valentine
- 15: I am not a submissive
- 14: This Hormonal Life
- 13: If I were taking an erotic photograph…
- 13: TMI Tuesday 2/12/2019
- 13: FPF Day 12 – Valentine
- 12: FPF Day 11 – Snow Day 2
- 11: Hurt
- 11: Snow Day! (Sinful Sunday & FPF Day 10)
- 10: FPF Day 9 – Goddess
- 10: The Erotic Journal Challenge #6: Style
- 09: FPF Day 8 – In the Mirror
- 08: FPF Day 7 – A long, hard day
- 07: A Dirty, Dirty Sinner
- 07: FPF Day 6 – I gave up discomfort long ago
- 06: EJC Update: “Prostate Play”
- 05: FPF Day 5 – My most naked reflection
- 05: TMI Tuesday 2/4/2019
- 05: FPF Day 4 – The Pout of My Lips
- 03: FPF Day 3 – The Doorway to My Heart
- 03: Sinful Sundae
- 02: FPF Day 2 – The swell of my thigh
- 02: The Erotic Journal Challenge #5: Hurt
- 02: Brigit’s Favorite Things (#5/2019)
- 01: FPF Day 1 – The Curve of My Breast
- 01: I want it when I’ve had it
January 2019
- 31: Love and Lust
- 30: Story Elements Card Deck
- 30: On the Tracks
- 29: TMI Tuesday 1/29/2019
- 29: Black Lace Babydoll
- 28: Sensitive
- 28: The Maestro
- 27: Red-handed
- 27: February PhotoFest 2019
- 27: End of January Blog Evaluation
- 27: When things are good…
- 27: Prostate Play
- 26: The Erotic Journal Challenge #4: Exploration (and experimentation)
- 26: Talking Dirty
- 26: Brigit’s Favorite Things (#4/2019)
- 25: Brigit’s Book Club: Us Against You
- 25: Friday Flash No. 38 Horseshoe
- 24: Lingerie is for Everyone (week 1)
- 24: Exploration leads to experimentation leads to change
- 23: TMI Tuesday 1/22/2019
- 22: I lay beside you
- 21: Brigit’s Favorite Things (#3/2019)
- 21: A Perfect Handful
- 20: The Erotic Journal Challenge #3: Dirty Talk
- 18: Discovery
- 16: TMI Tuesday 1/15/2019
- 16: The Ins and Outs of Sex
- 15: Hold It Right There
- 14: Brigit’s Favorite Things (#2/2019)
- 13: Have a drink on me…
- 12: The Erotic Journal Challenge #2: Discovery
- 11: First Impressions: Us Against You
- 10: Before & After
- 09: TMI Tuesday 1/8/2019
- 08: Mirror, Mirror
- 07: The 12 Senses
- 05: Brigit’s Goals for 2019
- 05: Brigit’s Favorite Things (#1/2019)
- 05: Sinful Sunday is now in His hands
- 05: The Erotic Journal Challenge #1: Sensuality (The 5 Senses)
- 04: January’s NAKED Reveal (and December’s Wrap-up)
- 03: The Storm
December 2018
- 19: Recommitting (The Separation, Day 24)
- 14: Brigit’s Book Club: Beartown
- 13: Naughty or Nice?
- 13: Closer
- 10: Free & Clear
- 09: Sinful Sunday
- 07: Finding my feet (The Separation, Day 11)
- 05: TMI Tuesday – “Relationships are Work”
- 04: The Separation, day 9
- 03: On my knees…
- 01: Busy Brains, Reflection, and Looking Forward
November 2018
- 30: The Naked Reveal: December’s Book Selection
- 29: Playing with Words
- 28: TMI Tuesday
- 27: The Separation, Day 1
- 26: Separation
- 23: Thankful
- 22: Brigit’s Books (Club Update and “In other books…”)
- 22: Two sides of one painfully necessary coin
- 21: TMI Tuesday
- 20: How to Fall
- 19: Back to the Beginning
- 16: Brigit’s Book Club: Where the Crawdads Sing
- 10: Smut Relay part 12 – The Turning Tide
- 03: November Book Reveal
October 2018
- 26: Gravity & Remedy
- 19: Conjure & Elemental
- 12: Intuition & Alchemy
- 09: Caged Bird
- 05: A Little Light-hearted Witchery
- 02: Introducing…The Book Club
- 02: Hot, Hot, Hot!
September 2018
August 2018
July 2018
- 25: TMI Tuesday
- 23: Lust
- 18: Pins and Needles
- 17: Prosperity and Joy
- 17: The Fortune Cookie (full text)
- 15: My Smut Marathon #6 Feedback
- 14: Orchids
- 14: Top 3 of the Week
- 11: Demons Inside
- 10: Closest to Real
June 2018
- 25: We’re all mad here…
- 14: Asking for What I Want
- 13: Yoga and D/s (revisited)
- 11: That’s Why I Do It
- 11: In Memoriam
- 10: Top Three of the Week
- 07: Black and Silent
- 06: 6 Ways to Provide Writing Feedback
- 05: Sunset
May 2018
- 21: Naked in the Rain
- 20: Top 3 of the Week
- 20: Euphoria
- 17: Love Languages in D/s
- 15: TMI Tuesday
- 15: Letting Go Just a Little More
- 13: Top 3 of the Week: Teachers!
- 10: Monologue
- 09: TMI Tuesday
- 07: My thoughts on Smut Marathon
- 04: 10 tips for finding time to write
April 2018
- 26: “Smut Marathon” rounds #1-3
- 24: 5 Things
- 23: Interrupted
- 23: Charlie’s Bar
- 22: Top 3 of the Week
- 19: Million Dollar Smile
- 16: He’s got this
- 16: On Your Knees
- 11: Our D/s journey
- 09: What am I willing to give?
- 09: Just something I threw on
- 05: The Yoga Sutra and D/s
- 01: Full Moon
March 2018
- 28: Where we belong
- 27: Your Biggest Fan
- 26: The Wife Coach, part 5 “Yes, Sir”
- 25: Black Lace
- 24: Top 3 of the Week
- 21: Chatting, Cheating, and Catharsis
- 20: The Wife Coach, part 4 “Red Sky”
- 17: Shadows & Shyness
- 17: Top 3 of the Week
- 14: Almost…but not quite
- 13: The Wife Coach – part 3 “Coffee”
- 12: Morning Stretch
- 05: The Wife Coach – part 2 “The Reply”
- 04: Focus on the shoes
February 2018
- 28: Sunlight
- 28: Girl in a Dress
- 27: I need a stiff drink
- 25: Morning Light
- 24: Looking Down
- 23: Bent
- 23: Naked
- 22: Reading in Bed
- 21: Garters & Thigh Highs
- 20: The Wife Coach – part 1 “The Ad”
- 19: Triptych
- 16: Offering
- 15: Valentine
- 14: February Photofest 2018 x 2
- 13: Monogamy
- 11: Areola
- 11: Top 3 of the Week
- 11: Blue
- 11: Inner Thigh
- 10: Back Roll
- 09: Belly
- 08: Still Growing
- 07: True Colors
- 06: Starry Night
- 05: Everything converges
- 04: A Break from Work
- 03: Top 3 of the Week
- 03: Blue
- 02: Bound
- 01: Chemistry
January 2018
- 30: TMI Tuesday
- 30: Irony
- 29: Voodoo Me – part 2
- 28: I’m tired of looking back
- 28: Curves & Shadows
- 25: Baggage
- 23: Voodoo Me (part 1)
- 17: Truth (TMI Tuesday)
- 16: On the path to rebuilding
- 14: Sunday, reading in bed
- 14: Top 3 of the Week
- 10: “What are you doing to keep me?”
- 10: First Love
- 10: TMI Tuesday
- 08: Morning Meditation
- 07: Top 3 of the Week
- 05: The door is open
- 03: When life gets in the way
- 02: First kisses of 2018
- 02: Goals for improving my sex life in 2018
- 01: The magic of beginnings – and the tools & gadgets that help
- 01: Electric
December 2017
- 30: “Fuck, Blog, Run” – My goals for 2018
- 30: My top reads of 2017
- 26: My top 3 blogging superheroes
- 24: Unsuccessful blow jobs and sexual frustration
- 23: In the Mirror
- 21: A four-poem year
- 21: When the dark gives way to the growing light
- 21: Who knew I was a marathon girl?
- 19: Unadorned
- 14: Awakening 2
- 14: Awakening
- 12: A calm in the storm
- 12: Under the Tree
- 11: When he touches me at night
- 11: He sees you when…
- 08: He shares the blame
- 06: Sleepless in Seattle
- 04: Apology
- 04: Sex in the Afternoon
- 03: Another bad chapter
- 03: Red
- 03: Acceptance and resilience
- 01: Weathering the storm
November 2017
- 30: The Coy Muse
- 29: Setting the stage
- 27: Promise not to tell…
- 17: And, yet again, I rise…
May 2016
- 16: Mutual Masturbation
- 10: A Living Canvas
- 09: Pink Deux
- 04: Thirteen
April 2016
March 2016
February 2016
- 02: The Centerpiece
August 2015
- 27: Magical realism…
- 02: Nostalgic
July 2015
- 29: Am I starting to like it? WTF?
- 27: My tits…
- 22: The Mental Process of Concocting a Fantasy
- 21: Masturbating for Him
- 15: Hormones: a cash cow
- 14: Does she know any tricks?
- 13: Daydreaming
- 13: Bound
- 09: Oui
- 07: I know you’re watching….
- 06: The Chair
- 01: Naked: A softening perspective
June 2015
- 30: Caveat Emptor
- 27: In Bed with Books (Sinful Sunday)
- 27: Chained
- 25: Sexually disabled? disordered? dysfunctional?
- 23: What I would do with you…
- 21: Sinful Sunday
- 15: The sweetest perfume
- 15: Satin & Lace
- 11: He doesn’t have to make me
- 08: Unsatisfied
May 2015
- 26: Thorns
November 2014
July 2014
June 2014
- 27: On the Green Line to Arlington Station
- 26: Mile High Illusion
- 20: An Open Window
- 18: YKINMKBTOK
- 07: The Wrong God
May 2014
- 16: Pre-marital Sex? (FFF)
- 07: The Impotence of My Voice
- 02: Neverland
January 2014
- 04: Borrowed Bodies
August 2013
- 27: Having fun with naughty bits
- 23: Two for the price of one! (FFF)
- 23: Suspicion…Part Two (trigger warning)
- 22: Little Miss Muffet
- 01: How I Experience Your Pleasure
July 2013
- 31: 10 things I like about swinging
- 27: Suspicion
- 25: 10 things I hate about swinging
- 25: The Proposition
- 12: The Phone Call (FFF)
- 06: FFF – Independence Day
- 03: Confessional Writing: Self-Indulgent Narcissism or Legitimate Art?
- 02: A (Porn) Star is Born?
June 2013
- 30: And the Mass Exodus Begins
- 29: Make Your Move
- 28: The Sky Is Indeed Falling (thanks for the heads up, Molly!)
- 27: Lights Out (part two)
- 27: Lights Out (part one)
- 23: Sexy Undies for Curvier Girls
- 22: Strike a Pose
- 19: The Sweetest Perfume
- 16: Blurring the Lines of Censorship?
- 14: In her sleep
- 11: Bent over the bathroom counter…
- 09: Eroticon…should I? Or shouldn’t I?
- 08: Wet
- 07: HNT: Alone and Bored…what’s a girl to do?
- 06: Center of Attention
May 2013
- 30: Sexualized youth…
- 29: Sensual Blogger Award
- 24: The Discipline Log
- 24: Presenting
- 23: Conquer Me (book review)
- 16: My first orgasm with a man…
- 13: My letters to A (annotated version)
- 11: Accepting my own submission…
- 10: There’s nothing quite like the first time…
- 10: I love it when he comes…
- 09: Would you say no to a threesome?
- 07: Two’s company…three’s a…?
April 2013
- 28: Is Love a Social Construct and Marriage an Outdated Practice?
- 25: Closer
- 22: Role Play, Figging, and the Element of Surprise
- 20: Serving Him (book review)
- 20: Stolen
- 18: The Dance
- 17: When your body isn’t aware that your thoughts aren’t really happening…
- 13: My Favorite Barista
- 13: In the Bath
- 10: Colorless
- 05: Digging Deeper
- 04: Diary of a Submissive (review)
March 2013
- 29: I’m not dead…
- 24: Safe Words…featuring Homer Simpson
- 22: Liberation Interlude
- 21: Collared
- 20: My first “rules”
- 19: On embracing submissiveness
- 16: On the Edge
- 15: Instructions (part two)
- 14: Instructions
- 07: Sex in the Alcove
- 05: Q & A: What’s your favorite sex toy?
- 01: Don’t look at my eyes…
February 2013
- 28: Sex at Dawn
- 23: Undone
- 22: Inappropriate places for orgasms…& a little HNT for good measure.
- 20: In the Back Seat of the Bus
- 20: TMI – Fill in the blanks
- 16: Guilt, Jealousy, and Submission
- 13: Beneath Beautiful
- 08: Ice Cream and Tits…two of my favorite things…
January 2013
- 31: When your libido takes a vacation…how do you convince it to come back?
- 18: The sexiest parts of a man… (HNT – featuring Mr. LL)
- 17: After Noon
- 16: You Ought to Be in Pictures…
- 13: The SMARTEST Sex Bloggers
- 11: Hotel pictures (HNT)
- 10: I’m an introverted exhibitionist
- 04: New Year…New Blog Plans
- 04: Best Posts of the New Year…
- 04: “A Window, Open to the World” – original poetry (HNT)
- 03: Club Sapphire -2013 New Year’s Celebration (club review)
December 2012
- 14: Sexsomnia = Exhaustion
- 13: The Sexiest Poets #1: William Carlos Williams
- 12: ‘Tis the Season for TMI
- 11: Deck the Halls…a 7 bonus swinger house party
- 08: Deck the Halls with Lingerie
- 06: Nostalgic Pornography (HNT)
- 06: Love Letter
- 05: Sexual Fantasies
November 2012
- 30: What a Girl Wants (HNT)
- 29: Judging others’ sexual proclivity is objectionable
- 28: Our sex was famous, but I forgot your name… (TMI Tuesday)
- 27: On Matthew McConaughey, Woody Harrelson, Male Strippers, Butt Plugs, Red Wine, and Being Held Down
- 24: The Price I Pay for Fucking
- 23: Wearing Nothing but His Socks
- 22: Afternoon in the Park
- 16: “Almost” Naked Reading (HNT)
- 15: One drink away from your first kiss with another girl
- 14: Ever shot cum out of your nose?
- 13: Masturbating in the Shower
- 12: Book Review: Morning, Noon, and Night (ed. Alyson Tyler)
- 11: New “Voyeuristic Tendencies”…and where the hell are all the male sex bloggers?
- 10: The Sensualist – a tale of massage…with a twist
- 07: Wicked Wednesday: “Change”
- 06: TMI Tuesday: Movember
- 05: Masturbating in the shower
September 2012
- 25: Get off me! Or get me off.
- 24: Tent Sex
August 2012
- 27: Masturbating for an Audience
- 16: HNT: It’s getting hot in here…
- 13: The insecurities of aging
- 11: Absence makes the heart grow….
June 2012
- 16: Photographs (fiction, part 3)
- 12: The Taming of the “Screw”: why technique matters
- 08: HNT: save the date
- 02: Photographs (fiction, part 2)
- 01: Sunlight (HNT)
- 01: Photographs (fiction, part 1)
May 2012
- 31: Does size really matter? (plus: poetry challenge continued…)
- 29: All-time Worst Swinger Ads
- 26: Female Ejaculation – Yep, I can do that….
- 24: Crotchless panties (tryptic) HNT, Reader’s POLL, and Haiku
- 22: Going Down on Girls
- 19: Can the moon affect your sex drive?
- 11: Night Shift
- 09: Lost and Found
- 08: Letter to My Lover
- 04: Yes
- 01: There Is Never a Second First Time
April 2012
- 30: A Marriage Ballad
- 29: Skin
- 26: Oh, Good God! I’m Horny!
- 15: Sexual Growth
- 15: Perfect Cover
- 14: Deep-six
- 13: Shaving without pain? (HNT!)
- 12: I like girls (bisexuality)
- 09: Sexting
- 06: HNT!!
March 2012
February 2012
January 2012
January 2011
December 2010
November 2010
- 24: The Smart Girl’s Guide to Porn…ch.2
- 22: Sexsomnia
- 19: The Smart Girls Guide to Porn…
- 13: Smart Girls and Sex
- 11: Sex Blogging
- 09: Experience: Friends with Benefits?
October 2010
- 29: There’s nothing like the first time
- 29: Pre-Swing
- 26: Archeology
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