Archive

November 2022

01: Share the Wealth

October 2022

30: A Heavy Truth

September 2022

05: I did a thing…
04: It’s been a minute

March 2022

February 2022

27: Sunday is a Day of Rest
27: Bullseye
21: The Erotic Blueprint
20: Setting boundaries (for the blog) and making plans (for the EJC)
18: Flash Fiction Friday #24
17: Fight Club (FPF 13)
14: The Interview (15/100)
14: The Da Vinci Code (FPF 12)
14: Valentine
13: Snow Falling on Cedars (FPF 11)
13: The First Time (14/100)
12: Untamed (FPF 10)
12: After (13/100)
12: What do you seek in others (turn-ons & turn-offs)?
11: Flash Fiction Friday #23
10: Airborne (12/100)
10: A Moveable Feast (FPF 9)
09: The Show Must Go On (11/100)
09: Lolita (FPF 8)
09: Finding joy
08: The Kiss (FPF 7)
08: I Didn’t Even Know His Name (10/100)
08: What are you hungry for?
07: The Voice in My Head (9/100)
07: Prozac Nation (FPF 6)
07: What makes you feel free?
06: Untoward (8/100)
06: A Natural History of the Senses (FPF 5)
06: Bite-sized
05: Sleep Can Wait (7/100)
05: Refuge (FPF 4)
04: Bookmarking: a strategy for prioritizing intimacy
04: Flash Fiction Friday #22
03: Wild (FPF 3)
03: Waiting (6/100)
03: Mindful intimacy
02: A passionate marriage
02: Naked (5/100)
02: The Unabridged Journals of Sylvia Plath (FPF 2)
01: February Photofest 2022 – Literary Nudes Series
01: Hunger (4/100)
01: The definition of passion

January 2022

December 2021

November 2021

30: Waiting
29: #UnwrapMe (a preview of what’s to come)
28: A Stolen Moment
28: The Submissive’s Advent Calendar
27: Green Day
26: Flash Fiction Friday #14
19: Flash Fiction Friday #13
18: The Island Inside
11: Flash Fiction Friday #12
07: #loveletter 7
06: The Early Bird
06: #loveletter 6
05: #loveletter 5
04: Flash Fiction Friday #11
04: #loveletter 4
03: #loveletter 3
02: Meow
02: #loveletter 2
01: #loveletter 1

October 2021

July 2021

June 2021

25: Flash Fiction Friday #6
22: Limbo
20: What are your thoughts on gender and sexual identity?
18: Clean
18: Flash Fiction Friday #4
11: Flash Fiction Friday #3
06: Describe Your Lovemap
06: How will you die?
05: Britney – A guest review from Mr. D (with interjections from Brigit)
05: Saturday (a wrap-up of sorts)
05: The Bridge
04: #boobday is a good day
04: Flash Fiction Friday #2

May 2021

April 2021

March 2021

30: The Stranger (part 5)
28: Date Night & Sex Therapy
27: What was the last thing you read?
27: Misconceptions
26: Music to Fuck To
26: Tell Me What You Want
25: Two Truths and a Lie
24: Aiming to Belong Instead of Trying to Fit In
23: The Stranger (part 4)
21: The Sweet Spot
20: What role does kink and fantasy play in your sex life?
20: What type of music are you into?
20: 5 legitimate ways to kick start your libido
18: The State of Our Sexual Union
17: Mistakes were made…
15: Origin of my pen name
14: The Stranger (part 3)
14: What is a Soft Dom?
13: A day of rest…
12: Strong foundations allow for growth
11: Mouth
11: How’s your sex life?
11: What’s your favorite way to spend a day off?
09: Soul Mate
08: The Stranger (part 2)
07: Community
07: Erotic Journal Challenge (after the epiphany & some help from friends)
06: tell me something true
06: What’s the point of all this?
04: The Stranger
02: Who Decides the Foundations of a D/s Relationship?
01: Identifying each other’s fantasies (part 2)

February 2021

28: February Photofest 2021 Wrap-up
28: The Erotic Journal Challenge goes WEEKLY (again)
28: The Erotic Book Club: March 2021
26: Reflective
25: Porn in the shower
24: Stripes & Polka Dots
23: Identifying each other’s fantasies
19: TGIF
18: Quick Release
17: Connection
16: Home Base
15: Mood
14: Love’s Language
12: Fuck It Friday
11: A Slow Striptease 4
11: Ties that Bind
10: A Slow Striptease 3
09: A Slow Striptease 2
08: A Slow Striptease 1
07: A long time coming
07: Texture
05: Pinched
04: Bubbles
03: Pink Panties
02: Coffee
01: Hands
01: Erotic Journal Challenge: February Celebrations!

January 2021

31: Post Run Strip & January Wrap-up
30: The Fantasy Box (an intimate review)
29: Pretty Things
28: Sex Stats
26: Intoxication
24: Freshly Fucked
24: Monochromerotic #26: Violet Chevron
24: #boobday!
23: Erotic Book Club – February 2021
23: Erotic Book Club – January 2021 Discussion
23: 24/7 D/s = just our way of life
21: Happy Hug Day!
20: What can I do for you?
19: Mental Switch – releasing control and managing focus as a submissive
17: Celebrating the Whole Picture
16: Submission Saturday
14: Asking
13: What I want as a submissive
12: Seeking Perfection vs. Creating a Vision
11: In the Dark
11: Sex Therapy Update
08: Hormone Therapy: The Adventure Begins
07: Prologue 2021
06: Submission is new every day

December 2020

November 2020

October 2020

31: 30 Dirty Questions
29: The Trouble with Mischief
27: Crucible
26: Listening to Heal
25: Demon Lover
25: Sheared
25: #EROBLOPOMO 2020
25: EROBLOPOMO is coming!
24: Momentum
23: Change
22: Moonlit
21: Blush
20: Vulnerable
19: In the Dark
18: Without Color
17: An Overcast Fall Day
04: October’s Erotic Poetry Challenge: “Halloween”
04: October’s Erotic Journal Challenge: “Mischievous”

September 2020

August 2020

July 2020

June 2020

May 2020

April 2020

March 2020

31: Blue
29: Erotic Journal Challenge: April 2020 “Receptive”
29: April Poetry Challenge 2020
23: The Four Foundations of Mindfulness
22: Photographs (revisited)
17: My “Vision” of Dominance
11: The Tenant – 1941
10: Fairweather submissive
10: My Submissive “Vision”
08: Smut Marathon – Round 2 Feedback
07: Eating Out
07: Final February Photofest Faves
04: D/s as a Regular Show of Faith
04: Fact vs. Fiction in D/s
02: The Perfect Submissive…

February 2020

January 2020

December 2019

November 2019

October 2019

September 2019

30: Aging and Masturbation
29: Journal 9/29/19
29: Electric
28: The Erotic Journal Challenge – OCTOBER (Fear, Insecurity, Anxiety, and Self-Doubt)
28: Bedtime Stories 3: “Traffic Stop” (Audio/Podcast)
28: Smutathon
24: Journal 9/24/2019
23: Journal 9/23/2019 a.m.
22: Smut Marathon (quarter-finals) Feedback
21: Journal 9/21/2019 a.m.
18: Frigid
17: Journal 9/17/2019 a.m.
16: Journal 9/16/2019 a.m.
15: Journal 9/15/2019 p.m.
14: Journal 9/14/2019 a.m.
13: Journal 9/13/2019 a.m.
11: Painted Red
09: In Need of Ritual
04: September is Erotic Journal Challenge “Catch-up Month”

August 2019

July 2019

June 2019

May 2019

April 2019

March 2019

February 2019

January 2019

31: Love and Lust
30: Story Elements Card Deck
30: On the Tracks
29: TMI Tuesday 1/29/2019
29: Black Lace Babydoll
28: Sensitive
28: The Maestro
27: Red-handed
27: February PhotoFest 2019
27: End of January Blog Evaluation
27: When things are good…
27: Prostate Play
26: The Erotic Journal Challenge #4: Exploration (and experimentation)
26: Talking Dirty
26: Brigit’s Favorite Things (#4/2019)
25: Brigit’s Book Club: Us Against You
25: Friday Flash No. 38 Horseshoe
24: Lingerie is for Everyone (week 1)
24: Exploration leads to experimentation leads to change
23: TMI Tuesday 1/22/2019
22: I lay beside you
21: Brigit’s Favorite Things (#3/2019)
21: A Perfect Handful
20: The Erotic Journal Challenge #3: Dirty Talk
18: Discovery
16: TMI Tuesday 1/15/2019
16: The Ins and Outs of Sex
15: Hold It Right There
14: Brigit’s Favorite Things (#2/2019)
13: Have a drink on me…
12: The Erotic Journal Challenge #2: Discovery
11: First Impressions: Us Against You
10: Before & After
09: TMI Tuesday 1/8/2019
08: Mirror, Mirror
07: The 12 Senses
05: Brigit’s Goals for 2019
05: Brigit’s Favorite Things (#1/2019)
05: Sinful Sunday is now in His hands
05: The Erotic Journal Challenge #1: Sensuality (The 5 Senses)
04: January’s NAKED Reveal (and December’s Wrap-up)
03: The Storm

December 2018

19: Recommitting (The Separation, Day 24)
14: Brigit’s Book Club: Beartown
13: Naughty or Nice?
13: Closer
10: Free & Clear
09: Sinful Sunday
07: Finding my feet (The Separation, Day 11)
05: TMI Tuesday – “Relationships are Work”
04: The Separation, day 9
03: On my knees…
01: Busy Brains, Reflection, and Looking Forward

November 2018

30: The Naked Reveal: December’s Book Selection
29: Playing with Words
28: TMI Tuesday
27: The Separation, Day 1
26: Separation
23: Thankful
22: Brigit’s Books (Club Update and “In other books…”)
22: Two sides of one painfully necessary coin
21: TMI Tuesday
20: How to Fall
19: Back to the Beginning
16: Brigit’s Book Club: Where the Crawdads Sing
10: Smut Relay part 12 – The Turning Tide
03: November Book Reveal

October 2018

September 2018

August 2018

21: Old Man Winter’s Farm
19: Through the Lens

July 2018

June 2018

May 2018

April 2018

March 2018

February 2018

January 2018

30: TMI Tuesday
30: Irony
29: Voodoo Me – part 2
28: I’m tired of looking back
28: Curves & Shadows
25: Baggage
23: Voodoo Me (part 1)
17: Truth (TMI Tuesday)
16: On the path to rebuilding
14: Sunday, reading in bed
14: Top 3 of the Week
10: “What are you doing to keep me?”
10: First Love
10: TMI Tuesday
08: Morning Meditation
07: Top 3 of the Week
05: The door is open
03: When life gets in the way
02: First kisses of 2018
02: Goals for improving my sex life in 2018
01: The magic of beginnings – and the tools & gadgets that help
01: Electric

December 2017

30: “Fuck, Blog, Run” – My goals for 2018
30: My top reads of 2017
26: My top 3 blogging superheroes
24: Unsuccessful blow jobs and sexual frustration
23: In the Mirror
21: A four-poem year
21: When the dark gives way to the growing light
21: Who knew I was a marathon girl?
19: Unadorned
14: Awakening 2
14: Awakening
12: A calm in the storm
12: Under the Tree
11: When he touches me at night
11: He sees you when…
08: He shares the blame
06: Sleepless in Seattle
04: Apology
04: Sex in the Afternoon
03: Another bad chapter
03: Red
03: Acceptance and resilience
01: Weathering the storm

November 2017

May 2016

April 2016

28: Shifting Limits, Seeking Balance
26: Under Surveillance

March 2016

15: Breaching the Surface

February 2016

02: The Centerpiece

August 2015

27: Magical realism…
02: Nostalgic

July 2015

29: Am I starting to like it? WTF?
27: My tits…
22: The Mental Process of Concocting a Fantasy
21: Masturbating for Him
15: Hormones: a cash cow
14: Does she know any tricks?
13: Daydreaming
13: Bound
09: Oui
07: I know you’re watching….
06: The Chair
01: Naked: A softening perspective

June 2015

30: Caveat Emptor
27: In Bed with Books (Sinful Sunday)
27: Chained
25: Sexually disabled? disordered? dysfunctional?
23: What I would do with you…
21: Sinful Sunday
15: The sweetest perfume
15: Satin & Lace
11: He doesn’t have to make me
08: Unsatisfied

May 2015

26: Thorns

November 2014

July 2014

June 2014

27: On the Green Line to Arlington Station
26: Mile High Illusion
20: An Open Window
18: YKINMKBTOK
07: The Wrong God

May 2014

January 2014

04: Borrowed Bodies

August 2013

July 2013

31: 10 things I like about swinging
27: Suspicion
25: 10 things I hate about swinging
25: The Proposition
12: The Phone Call (FFF)
06: FFF – Independence Day
03: Confessional Writing: Self-Indulgent Narcissism or Legitimate Art?
02: A (Porn) Star is Born?

June 2013

30: And the Mass Exodus Begins
29: Make Your Move
28: The Sky Is Indeed Falling (thanks for the heads up, Molly!)
27: Lights Out (part two)
27: Lights Out (part one)
23: Sexy Undies for Curvier Girls
22: Strike a Pose
19: The Sweetest Perfume
16: Blurring the Lines of Censorship?
14: In her sleep
11: Bent over the bathroom counter…
09: Eroticon…should I? Or shouldn’t I?
08: Wet
07: HNT: Alone and Bored…what’s a girl to do?
06: Center of Attention

May 2013

30: Sexualized youth…
29: Sensual Blogger Award
24: The Discipline Log
24: Presenting
23: Conquer Me (book review)
16: My first orgasm with a man…
13: My letters to A (annotated version)
11: Accepting my own submission…
10: There’s nothing quite like the first time…
10: I love it when he comes…
09: Would you say no to a threesome?
07: Two’s company…three’s a…?

April 2013

28: Is Love a Social Construct and Marriage an Outdated Practice?
25: Closer
22: Role Play, Figging, and the Element of Surprise
20: Serving Him (book review)
20: Stolen
18: The Dance
17: When your body isn’t aware that your thoughts aren’t really happening…
13: My Favorite Barista
13: In the Bath
10: Colorless
05: Digging Deeper
04: Diary of a Submissive (review)

March 2013

29: I’m not dead…
24: Safe Words…featuring Homer Simpson
22: Liberation Interlude
21: Collared
20: My first “rules”
19: On embracing submissiveness
16: On the Edge
15: Instructions (part two)
14: Instructions
07: Sex in the Alcove
05: Q & A: What’s your favorite sex toy?
01: Don’t look at my eyes…

February 2013

January 2013

December 2012

14: Sexsomnia = Exhaustion
13: The Sexiest Poets #1: William Carlos Williams
12: ‘Tis the Season for TMI
11: Deck the Halls…a 7 bonus swinger house party
08: Deck the Halls with Lingerie
06: Nostalgic Pornography (HNT)
06: Love Letter
05: Sexual Fantasies

November 2012

September 2012

25: Get off me! Or get me off.
24: Tent Sex

August 2012

June 2012

May 2012

April 2012

March 2012

February 2012

January 2012

22: Preparing for Pleasure X 4
21: Easy Come, Easy Go

January 2011

08: Why does porn suck?

December 2010

November 2010

October 2010

Cumming Home
Traffic was stalled. You didn’t notice me, side-eyeing your chiseled jaw and 5 o’clock shadow. Our windows were up, air-conditioning …
Airborne (12/100)
Gray flesh sagged from his bones. Even from this distance, she could see the curved lines it created, like stacked …
Regret
Before I opened my eyes, I already knew something was wrong. The smell was off. A black, heavy feeling, like …
The Mute
Gooseflesh blossomed, rising to meet the soft tickle of the feather he snaked down her back. Dipping the quill into …
The First Time (14/100)
free image source: freepik.com He placed a wad of bills on the nightstand, and she spread her legs in …

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