• Flash Fiction Friday

    Flash Fiction Friday #6

    Fuck. Another week flew by without me playing my own game. I’m doing some supervisory work I hadn’t planned on, and I’ve just not had much energy, creatively or sexually speaking (no motivation or energy to give to the blog). But, I’m beginning to feel grounded, finding my new routine. So, maybe I’ll get back in the swing of things on the blog this week? *crosses fingers * In the mean time, here is the next Flash Friday Fiction prompt! Prompt 5: Write 100-200 words in response to the feature image. Added challenge: use all 5 senses. Go Here to Read the Rules (because, yes…there are etiquette expectations). Then write…

  • Experience


    You may be noticing my absence recently. And if you’ve been around long enough, that probably isn’t surprising. It’s definitely the time of year when I have less to say…less to do…less to give. At the end of a school year, I’m spent, and I sort of hit the wall when I stop moving. My forward momentum gives in, and I find myself suspended and inactive, forced to float between what was and what will be. Summer break is a weird sort of limbo for me. Many people got to see what it was like during the pandemic. How it is that we can have all this time and still…

  • Erotic Journal Challenge,  Uncategorized

    What are your thoughts on gender and sexual identity?

    Welcome to The Erotic Journal Challenge! If you’ve never participated, make sure to glance at the rules. This week, consider your thoughts on sexual identity and gender. Take it any direction you’d like, but here are some questions that might help to get the thoughts flowing: How do you feel about gender roles as they apply to you? Do you believe in gender and sexuality scales? Labels? How were you taught or guided as a young person to embrace sexual identity and/or gender? (Or how do you guide your own children?) How has culture changed in regard to sexual identity and gender? And how has this affected you? What gender…

  • Photography


    I’m washing myself clean of the year before, heading into summer break and then a new position at work. Moving up and beyond. It is time now to contract, fold in and heal. Like a caterpillar in a cocoon, it is time to prepare to become…again.

  • Flash Fiction Friday

    Flash Fiction Friday #4

    Alright, my friends, 5 people jumped on board last week. I had a rough one, creatively speaking (no motivation or energy to give to the blog), so I didn’t even play my own game (I hate it when that happens, but I’ll be better this week, I promise). So, let’s try for 6 participants this week! Here’s prompt 4: Write 100-200 words in response to the feature image. Added challenge: Don’t start any of your sentences with an article (A, An, the). Image borrowed from Bored Panda Go Here to Read the Rules (because, yes…there are etiquette expectations). Then write up your story and share it here. Afterward, be sure…

  • Flash Fiction Friday

    Flash Fiction Friday #3

    The momentum is building quickly! I can see that my craving and taste for flash fiction is shared by many! So let’s get right to challenge three: Write 100-200 words in response to the Feature image. Added challenge: use the words chiffon, tangerine, and blessed. (image from storyblocks.com…they do short stock video clips and still images) Go Here to Read the Rules (because, yes…there are etiquette expectations). Then write up your story and share it here. Afterward, be sure to read the other entries and vote for the ones you like best! Link-ups will be open on Fridays (12 am PST) and run through the following Thursday (11:59 pm PST). NOTE:…

  • Erotic Journal Challenge

    Describe Your Lovemap

    This #EroticJournalChallenge prompt will run for two weeks: Describe your love map. Lovemap: A developmental representation or template in the mind and in the brain depicting the idealized lover, the idealized love affair, and the idealized program of sexuoerotic activity projected in imagery or actually engaged in with that lover. – John Money Check out this article for more background. Love Map Guide I’m taking this prompt from Joan Mazza’s Exploring Your Sexual Self. According to Mazza, “Each of us has a unique lovemap…we each know what kind of people we find attractive, how we like to be approached and aroused, and the circumstances we find sexually alluring…we know what we consider…

  • Tell Me Something True

    How will you die?

    Let’s get to know one another a little better, shall we? The 7th question in Arthur Aron’s list of 36 is this: Do you have a secret hunch about how you will die? I considered skipping this questions. It seems like a terribly morbid question, but once I started thinking about it, our answers to this can reveal a lot about our habits, worries, and activities. For example, if I say I will likely die of liver cancer because I drink too much…well, that says something about my habits and fears, and the fact that I know my behavior is destructive and I do it anyway. Or if I’m sure I…

  • Reviews,  Sex Toy Reviews

    Britney – A guest review from Mr. D (with interjections from Brigit)

    First thoughts… Note: We were provided this product free from Tantaly for our honest and unbiased review. We were not paid for this review, beyond the free product. Product link When we took Britney out of the box, there was little material smell (less, even, than Rico), and it had a little mold release agent on the surface, giving it a greasy feel. Brittany is pretty hefty, but unlike Rico, she has an internal structure. The structure can be felt if you squeeze or grab it hard enough, but it is in no way obtrusive. I would liken it to bones in an actual woman. It is exceptionally well-made, with…

  • Experience

    Saturday (a wrap-up of sorts)

    It’s been a busy week, and I’ve had little time (or more honestly, energy or mental clarity) to devote to blogging. So, I’m going to do a quick meme-tackle here: If you were able to live to the age of 90 and retain either the mind or body of a 30-year old for the last 60 years of your life, which would you choose, and why? I’d say body. I’m assuming that my mind wouldn’t simply stop working for those final 60 years, so I could live with a bit of natural mental decline. That doesn’t worry me so much as my body giving out on me. Explore your early…

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