Experience,  Photography

Initiating sex (active submission)

I’ve never been much good at initiating sex or being very creative about it.

But, as I mentioned in yesterday’s post, I’ve been pretty horny recently (don’t know if there is some special alignment of the planets I’m unaware of…or maybe the world is coming to an end…), so I’ve been taking advantage of that feeling to step out of my comfort zone a bit and ask for things when I want them.

For example, I woke Him up with a blow job the other day, when normally I would have stifled that feeling and gone about getting ready for work. I would have talked myself out of it…told myself I didn’t have enough time, and I’d be late, or promised myself to do it later, and then I’d run out of steam or the feeling would no longer be there after work.

And yesterday, I came home a bit late and could have easily put aside my plan for another weekend. But I didn’t. I hurried and shaved, and showered, and dressed up in lingerie I had specifically bought for Him (months ago, actually – see how I roll?), sexier than the normal babydoll or negligee that I feel more comfortable in because they cover all my “flaws” – i.e. my mom belly and my dimpled behind.

These are a few things He’s asked me to work on in the past…letting out my inner slut, asking for what I want, acting on my sexual thoughts, and accepting my body as He does.


My dimpled behind in all its dimpled glory.


I went for the things He likes best…thigh highs, garters, and my tits and ass exposed and prominently highlighted.



While I didn’t quite meet Him at the door (I hung out in the kitchen, away from the windows), I could still tell it was a nice “surprise” (He reads my blog, so He had a bit of an idea of what I was planning…another reason I couldn’t back out…I didn’t want to disappoint – see how writing and blabbing my sex life holds me accountable?).

I removed His work boots, and He undressed and showered. Then He took the crop to my behind (there’s been a lot more spanking going on recently 😊), licked my pussy to wetness, and fucked me. And as I lay below Him, watching Him cum, I smiled both inside and out. I was proud of myself, and super turned on watching Him. It’s one of my favorite feelings in the world, feeling Him cum inside of me.



We ordered in and just snuggled on the couch watching TV, which was fine by me.

It was a good “date night.”



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  • Molly

    Love you outfit Brigit. The corset looks absolutely awesome on you. I love greeting a lover like that, telling the moment they walk through the door and see you want it is you want. Such a sexy thing to do and it sounds like it worked absolutely perfectly for you both


    • Brigit Delaney

      Thank you…and yes, it pretty much always works. I need to do it more often…but not so often that it loses its novelty. That’s its power.

  • Muse

    Gorgeous corset, you look amazing! Well done on going for it, it’s a hard thing to do but sounds like it was 100% worth it x

  • Mike

    My wife’s go to move to initiate sex is reaching over and placing a hand on me, or rubbing my leg with her foot once we’re in bed. Took me a long time to figure that out. Sometimes she will get up while we’re watching tv and say something like, “Come on, I’m ready for bed” but she has a devilish look or smacks my ass. But, this is maybe once a week. Love what you did there, and as a guy I imagine so did your husband… Love corsets by the way

    • Brigit Delaney

      I’m usually very subtle like that too…with the hand on the thigh or the snuggling up toward him in bed. He’d love it for me to be more obvious, and I’m working on that.

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