Experience,  Photography

Happy #boobday

I really love editing software…and pixlr (it’s what I used to create this week’s image) is one of my faves. Honestly, I’m not that creative, so showcasing my boobs in different ways each week is gonna take some outside help like this. Since it’s a app (free, I might mention), it doesn’t take a genius to use (necessary for me).


The Erotic Journal challeng prompt this week is “What do you like most (or least) about your partner?” And this image brings to mind one of those things, so I’m going to fit it in here.

Last night, I made some side comment about how large my areolas are. I’m not self-conscious about it, and I don’t really dislike it. It’s just something I notice, given how many naked photos I look at with my sexblogging hobby. I also don’t think they’ve always been this size. Childbirth and age have changed my breasts. They used to be (obviously) much perkier. 15 years ago, they jutted out rather than slouching, hanging heavily. I was also a small B cup, closer A. Then I had a baby and gained weight. So now they are solid (or should I say squishy) C-cups. And the areolas have grown and darkened.

The thing I love about Him, is that He loves my body no matter how it seems to change, and He tells me. While I may not always feel sexy as I age, He accepts me as I am, and verbalizes it to ensure I know how He feels.

That’s important.

Neither of us look like we did when we met. We enjoy food and drink far too much to be thin. And we dislike exercise far too much to be fit. So, we are soft. And yet, we can find each other’s bodies desirable anyway.

It’s an interesting thing about aging. Our perception changes, and we find those in our own age group attractive, no matter how old we become. I suppose that is nature at work.

Of course, there are many other things I love about Him. His ability to make me laugh, His protective nature, His thoughtfulness, His loyalty, His dogged unwillingness to give up, His intelligence, His openness.

He isn’t perfect. And that’s another thing I love about Him, I guess…His flaws are just as necessary to His nature as His good traits. The things He does that annoy the crap out of me are things I would miss if I didn’t have Him here – because they are characteristics that make Him who He is.

Happy (belated) #boobday!


  • Marie Rebelle

    Beautiful post, and I totally agree, it does seem as if what we find attractive changes as we age. Also, I am the same with Master T, those little things that sometimes annoy me, those are the things that makes him who he is, and which I will dearly miss if he wasn’t with me.
    ~ Marie xox

    • Brigit Delaney

      Thanks, Violet. I’m happy we have each other, too. And to think, so many times, we could have let it go because we just couldn’t get on the same page. It’s taken time, and we still aren’t all the way there. But, love is a journey.

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