• 30 Dirty Questions,  EROBLOPOMO,  Poetry

    Metamorphosis

    Over the years, I have watched your body change, slowly, like a glacier adding layers, the white snow falling around your ears, laying claim to the hills and valleys of your face, the bright blue of your eyes softening to grey, crevices, lines blossoming over time, an overall roughening. Your landscape is settling, harder in places, more brittle in others. And beneath what others see there are the dark, wet caves of your masculinity, secret coves of lush growth. I run my fingers through your dense forests, trees still erect and hungry for the light. And there are also hidden dens where hurt resides. I see those, and love them,…

  • 30 Dirty Questions,  EROBLOPOMO,  Opinion

    How do you revive foreplay? (20 Ideas)

    I LOVE foreplay. I’d say it’s my favorite part of a sexual experience (and honestly sometimes it has been better than the actual sex), but that’s not always true. The thing I like about foreplay is the build up. Foreplay can happen all day long…comments, texts, phone calls, glances…anything that assures or hints that sex is or could be on the way…at some point. It’s like waiting for the climax in a book or a movie. And my body reacts in the same way, faster breathing, widened pupils, tingling, muscle tightening. Of course, the climax of “the story” is wonderful, too…but it doesn’t last as long (usually), and sometimes there…

  • 30 Dirty Questions,  EROBLOPOMO,  My EJC Responses,  Opinion

    What are your thoughts on porn?

    Moving Images: I don’t watch much porn. I find it mostly disappointing, probably because of expect too much of it. But it certainly has its purpose, and I fall back on it in times of need, when I can’t summon the necessary fodder in my own imagination (which doesn’t happen all that often). I’ll be honest, too: I have a slim voyeuristic streak, and watching amateur-style videos on places like youporn can be an inspiring tool for masturbation. I’ve watched a few full-length movies, but let’s face it…no one watches porn for the story or the acting, and that is probably where I go wrong, expecting those things should exist in…

  • 30 Dirty Questions,  EROBLOPOMO

    What do you think about when you masturbate?

    Quite honestly, there are only a few things that can and will go on in my brain during masturbation. Because I know my body well, and because I normally masturbate with an end game in mind (orgasm = release, and release is usually the goal), I’m often simply just feeling rather than thinking, which means focusing all of my energy and consideration on the parts of my body that are feeling pleasure: nipples, clit, vagina, anus. I’m a pretty simple girl in that. And I don’t take long to cum when I’m in my own hands…usually less than 5 minutes. Sometimes less than 1. But there are times when I…

  • 30 Dirty Questions,  EROBLOPOMO

    What are your turn-ons and turn-offs?

    I’ve written plenty of times about turn-ons and turn-offs, so I thought I’d just do a quick brainstorm list of the things that turn me on and turn me off (because, of course, these things can change with time). I gave myself the length of one TV show to come up with the list, to make sure I didn’t think too deeply. Often I think the ideas that come to mind first say more about our true feelings than those we contemplate for hours. Turn ons: 1.blue and green eyes 2.intelligence 3.dominance 4.just the right scent/just the right amount 5.a muscular physique (on a man) 6.bigger guys 7.bald guys 8.facial…

  • 30 Dirty Questions,  EROBLOPOMO,  Opinion

    What are your thoughts on PDA/kink in public?

    I’m of two minds on this topic, moreso one than the other…so I’ll start with that one: I’ve never been one for affection in public. Not only does it make me uncomfortable to engage in it, but it also makes me uncomfortable to see it. I’m not talking little kisses and hugs…more like couples who make out and feel each other up on park benches, people who bring their kinks into public, and especially those people who feel it is their right to force their physicality on others. I believe my physical relationships are private, and I don’t like doing physical or sexual things in front of others (unless that…

  • 30 Dirty Questions,  EROBLOPOMO,  Experience,  Photography

    What makes sex better than good?

    Psst. Hey. We had sex last night. After more than 3 months. And it was better than good. Better than I feared it might be. Mainly because I was afraid I wouldn’t feel it. That thing that makes us “us.” And at first I didn’t, which really pulled the panic up from my gut. We did what we did to get ready for bed…criss-crossing eachother’s paths in the bathroom, removing clothes, brushing teeth and hair. Often I notice his gaze linger on my naked body in the large bathroom mirror. I usually avoid it, pretend I don’t notice, because lately, it’s hurt…to have him notice…and even worse to acknowledge it…

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