• Photography

    View from the rear…

    “The only time you should ever look back is to see how far you have come.” Last week, I shared the front view of this set, and a few people asked for the view from rear. I am nothing if not accommodating. XOXO

  • 30 Dirty Questions,  EROBLOPOMO,  Experience

    The most daring thing I’ve done…

    Honestly, the most daring sexual activities I’ve ever gotten up to have happened as a result of swinging. Meeting people online, fucking on the first “date,” having sex in front of others…even out in the open where groups of people could just walk by and have an eyeful, naked hot tub time, group co-ed showers. It was really the open and wild sexual time in my life. There were things I liked about it and things I really hated about it. I had good experiences and bad. So for this question from 30 Dirty Questions, I’m providing a list of 5 old posts that take you back to our swinging…

  • 30 Dirty Questions,  EROBLOPOMO,  Experience

    The look (and sound) of good sex…

    I once had someone tell me I had the best “sex face” and that I made the best noises during sex. I’m not so sure. I’ve seen my face in the mirror, both while masturbating and while being fucked from behind over the bathroom counter. I, personally, think I look like I’m having a stroke. But then, I’m not a guy, and since I mostly fuck guys, one in particular, I guess what constitutes “good” isn’t really up to me. “Beauty” is, after all, in the eye of the beholder. Maybe it’s just because I give a good show (not that I’m faking…I can’t, and don’t, consider my facial expressions…

  • Experience

    Trust Issues

    It’s hard to admit I have trust issues in my marriage. Even sitting in front of our therapist, his direct question hanging in the air between us… Do you trust him? …I wanted to say, “Yes, of course, I do. He’s my husband. Why wouldn’t I?” But instead I gave a very clumsy, complicated answer, trying hard to be as honest as possible ( one does that when one is paying a fortune to get advice from a nationally acclaimed sex therapist…one cannot afford to waste minutes like little gold coins): I trust him in lots of ways. I trust him with my life…with our finances. But I guess I…

  • Experience

    Love is like riding a bicycle…

    Possibly, Albert Einstein once said, “Life is like riding a bicycle. To keep your balance, you must keep moving.” But what if we changed life to love in that statement: Love is like riding a bicycle. To keep your balance, you must keep moving. Because love is a verb…something we do. And to keep our balance in love, we must keep doing it. We must do the things that constitute love in whatever relationship we are in. It’s easy to stop doing over time, to stop putting in the effort. It’s probably the number one reason relationships fall apart…because one or more involved stopped pedaling. Think of a long-term relationship like a bicycle built for two…

  • 30 Dirty Questions,  EROBLOPOMO

    Love Languages and Sex

    It’s been awhile since I took the Love Languages quiz, so I retook it for this post, and found that my results have changed a bit over the past few years. The last time I took this quiz, my top result was “Quality Time,” but probably due to experience, it has shifted to “Acts of Service.” (Which is kind of funny, since I’m supposed to be the submissive in this relationship.) Here’s what the site had to say about this particular result: “Can vacuuming the floors really be an expression of love? Absolutely! Anything you do to ease the burden of responsibilities weighing on an “Acts of Service” person will…

  • Photography

    Feeling good in my own skin

    “And I wondered for the first time whether feeling feminine just meant feeling good in your own skin.” Anonymous There are certain items of clothing that just make me feel sexy. Things that hang just the right way, accentuate just the right things, and are still comfortable because they move with me. I honestly don’t have that many things that do that, especially in my lingerie drawer. A travesty, I know.  And one that needs to be amended. But this set? It is always a winner.  The panties are backless, so they fulfill his definition of sexy,  too. Bonus.

  • Photography

    Cozy

    I’m not a dressy gal. I’ll wear a nice shirt and boots to work, maybe a skirt or dress from time to time. But I’m not much for jewelry or fancy clothes. I like to be comfortable. Jeans, t-shirts, sweaters, yoga pants, hoodies, wireless bras, cotton. Cozy.

  • 30 Dirty Questions,  EROBLOPOMO

    Fantasies, Dreams, and Kink

    We all have proclivities, preferences, and prejudices…things we are drawn to, things that make us turn away or even disgust us. What do you tend to fantasize or dream about when it comes to sex? What kinds of porn or kink are you drawn to? What turns you off? For me… Fantasies I fantasize about things that are romantic and passionate and that involve a lot of touching and kissing and creative foreplay. And, I’ll be honest, I’m usually at the center of my fantasies, receiving, rather than giving…having things done to me or for me. For example, a fantasy of mine is to be bathed and rubbed and lotioned and fucked slowly and sensually…

  • 30 Dirty Questions,  EROBLOPOMO

    What are your sexual fears?

    I’m sort of like a feral cat when it comes to new sexual experiences. I have to be lured, convinced, prodded, bribed. But then, I’m sort of hard-wired to be suspicious of change and newness in all regards. I’m a fan of comfort, planning, and knowing what to expect (which is why we both get so bored in the bedroom and why our sex life has become so dull). That’s not to say that I don’t love a surprise from time to time. Presents are lovely. But a surprise party? Nope. That would do this introvert in. Surprising me with a multi-partner sexual experience? Terror. Putting me in any new…

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