30 Dirty Questions

Welcome to my EROBLOPOMO theme for 2020 (and my Erotic Journal Challenge for November)! I’ll be selecting a “dirty” question to answer every day. And once I have the full list of questions (at the end of the challenge), I’ll post that and keep it somewhere on the site so you can access the questions and use them for your own “dirty” purposes. I will also post the questions daily on twitter, so if you want to use the same questions on your own site, you are more than welcome!

Keep in mind…I don’t actually find asking any questions “dirty,” (which sort of implies that they are wrong in some way). I just like how it rolls off the tongue. These questions will all be about sex in some way and will be the sorts of questions that get a the core of a person’s desires, fears, and experiences. The sorts of questions that could really help you get to know another person.

If you’d like to use the list, go right ahead! I spent a lot of time searching for just the right questions.

Because I only have the free version of InLinkz, I can only have 2 link-up parties going at once. So, this month, if you don’t want to do EROBLOPOMO, but you’d like to link up a post for the Erotic Journal Challenge, simply link your post in the comments below. Maybe you want to do all 30 questions with me (in which case, why wouldn’t you link them up for EROBLOPOMO?). Or maybe you just want to answer a few. And that is just as cool! I will be sure to link them in this post properly (with an image) as long as you post them in the comments section.

The Questions

If you’ve answered these questions or covered these topics on your blog before, consider them in a new way, or use a new genre to approach the subject. Your post doesn’t have to be an answer to the question. It could be a story, a poem, a photo, a collage, a list. There are infinite ways to share your thoughts on these topics.

Answer them in any order. Just check them off as you go!

Question 1: How do you define “awesome” sex (i.e. what makes sex better than good)?

Question 2: How do you feel about PDA? (You can take this as far as “kinks in public,” too.)

Question 3: What are your sure-fire turn-ons (and/or turn-offs)?

Question 4: What do you think about when you masturbate?

Question 5: What are your thoughts about porn?

Question 6: What are your thoughts on foreplay? Favorite types? Best experiences? Wishes?

Question 7: What parts of your lover’s body are you most drawn to? (If you don’t currently have a lover, feel free to consider past or future lovers.)

Question 8: Consider a moment in your life of great sensuality, eroticism, or sexuality. Then answer the questions that Mary Oliver does in her poem “Gratitude” as they apply to that moment.

Question 9: If you were to “recreate” the early days of your favorite sexy relationship, what would they look like? Would you change anything?

Question 10: What do you want more of in your sex life?

Question 11: Would you ever visit a sex therapist? What would be the reason and what do you think their advice would be for you?