• 30 Dirty Questions,  EROBLOPOMO,  Erotic Journal Challenge

    30 Dirty Questions

    Welcome to my EROBLOPOMO theme for 2020 (and my Erotic Journal Challenge for November)! I’ll be selecting a “dirty” question to answer every day. And once I have the full list of questions (at the end of the challenge), I’ll post that and keep it somewhere on the site so you can access the questions and use them for your own “dirty” purposes. I will also post the questions daily on twitter, so if you want to use the same questions on your own site, you are more than welcome! Keep in mind…I don’t actually find asking any questions “dirty,” (which sort of implies that they are wrong in some…

  • Experience,  My EJC Responses

    The Trouble with Mischief

    I think we all aspire to be better versions of ourselves. Sometimes we even try to reinvent ourselves from the ground up, disregarding the good that was already there in hopes that we’ll become something more acceptable…more loveable…someone who could belong. Me…I choose a set of words at the end of December, as I am establishing my goals for the new year. These words are what are termed my “core desired feelings.” They are my goal feelings, and they help me to plan my actions and schedule.  Looking at that list of feelings every day, I can ask myself, am I doing anything to help me feel this way? Is…

  • Erotic Poetry Challenge,  Poetry

    Crucible

    Tears rise in the corners of her widened eyes, as her lips curl around the dirty cloth– tied so tightly her cheeks are beginning to swell. The executioner lights the end of his torch from the tips of those in the crowd — so eager to assist when justice is being served — and then holds it steady between the logs, dry and thick, chosen specifically to burn as long as possible, at her feet. The crowd moves as one, a mass of angry starlings hungry for retribution, their cries bleeding together in vicious condemnation: “Burn the witch!” Better to kill her in solidarity than let her live in opposition…

  • Experience

    Listening to Heal

    I’ve told you before that I’m a teacher IRL. And this year, it’s pushing me in ways it never has before, not only because of the work load and the shift in delivery methods, but also because we have been mandated to provide social/emotional support through an advisory class. I forge good relationships with my students in normal times, but trying to develop connections online and support them in times of trauma and stress is pushing me to be more vulnerable myself and engage in ways that I normally would not. It’s not always comfortable. I’m not a touchy-feely, nurturing type. But I am perceptive, and I do care deeply.…

  • Experience

    Sheared

    I told him I was ready. Curled up against him, looking up at him through tired lashes, in front a TV we were no longer watching. But 3 months of “letting it go” had created a jungle down there. And I knew I wanted that taken care of before we did anything. I promised Sunday. And today, as promised, I placed the mirror, spread my legs, and took a breath. If nothing else is proof of how off our sex life has been, this is surely it. Like a lawnmower in knee deep, wet grass, I wasn’t even sure my shaver was up to it, and I feared getting my…

  • Blogging & Writing,  EROBLOPOMO

    #EROBLOPOMO 2020

    November is EROBLOPOMO! (Erotic Blog Posting Month)… or so I have declared.  I know we already have NANOWRIMO, which is awesome, but what if you don’t want to write a novel, or don’t have time to whip out 30,000 words this month? And I know there is also NABLOPOMO, but what if you want to share your dirtiest laundry, offer up your naughty photos, and write steamy stories that the “vanilla” world might not appreciate so much? Hence…Erotic Blog Posting Month!!! So here’s how it will work: Phase 1: Take some time to prepare the last week of October. 1. Make sure you have a space to write. If you don’t already…

  • Blogging & Writing,  EROBLOPOMO

    EROBLOPOMO is coming!

    Much like it’s predecessors NANOWRIMO and NABLOPOMO, EROBLOPOMO will be a month-long PERSONAL writing challenge. Here are some things to do to prepare: 1. Make sure you have a space to write. If you don’t already have a blog, start one (you can do this free on Blogger, WordPress,  and a host of other platforms). 2. Choose a theme. What is going to tie all of your posts together? Are you going to take the month to write 30 posts about gratitude? Are you going to write a naughty poem each day or post a sexy photo or drawing? You could do an A-Z style method, write 30 letters to…

  • Experience

    Momentum

    My desire to masturbate, or not, is a fairly reliable indicator of the status of my libido. Honestly,  my desire to write, or not, is just as much so. You can pretty gaurantee that if I’m writing, I’m feeling it…or at least on the brink. But masturbation, like writing, at least for me, involves work…and commitment. At least to get started. Staring at a blank page is much like staring at my toys considering what to write or how to touch myself. What will work? Where do I want to go with this? Am I writing just to “get it out of my system,” or am I trying to create…

  • Experience

    Change

    Last night I yawned, and stretched, and he reached over, tweaked my nipple and ruined my stretch. We both laughed…because it’s an inside joke…something he always does (or used to, when we were okay). The night before, he smacked my ass with a wooden spoon (the one he uses to itch beneath his cast) when I got up to refill my drink. Later he mentioned how good it felt to spank me…even if it was just a playful swat in the company of others during the course of our normal family evening. Those little sexual undercurrents that infuse themselves into daily activities are the heartbeat of a thriving sex life.…

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