• Experience,  My EJC Responses

    Aging and Masturbation

    When I was very young and figured out that certain places felt good when touched, the only tool I had at my disposal was my own body. I used my hands to explore and touch and rub and pinch, becoming quite adept, by my early teens, at inducing a clitoral orgasm by simply rubbing my fingers quickly across it. These orgasms caused a pulsing of the internal walls of my vagina, and they were satisfying, but it wasn’t until I was in my 20s that I knew a deeper orgasm was possible. Even though I began having sex at 16, I didn’t orgasm with another person until I was in…

  • Experience

    Journal 9/29/19

    We had two youngsters in our house last night, as my son had a friend over. They busied themselves out of our presence as tweens are wont to do, wanting nothing to do with the boring adults. But even with the time alone, we found ourselves crawling into bed early. The benefit of that was that we got up early, giving us a nice long Sunday to accomplish what was necessary and plenty of time to relax. This morning, he even texted me while I was writing in my office. Of course, since I was writing, I didn’t check my texts, and so He had to call me to tell…

  • Experience,  My EJC Responses

    Electric

    I wasn’t going to write about electric play for KotW. In fact, I don’t write for KotW much at all, because I often feel out of my element discussing kink. In my mind, because I read about kink from the points of view of so many whom I really would term kinky, I assume I’m just not much into any sort of kink. Of course, that isn’t true. I was recently reminded while reading a few tweets and blog posts that what one person finds kinky, another person finds to be the norm, and yet another finds to be deplorable and immoral. In fact, according to one blog post I…

  • Erotic Journal Challenge

    The Erotic Journal Challenge – OCTOBER (Fear, Insecurity, Anxiety, and Self-Doubt)

    Welcome to Fall, and welcome to the new Erotic Journal Challenge! I’ve decided to change things up a bit to make it as easy as possible for people to join in. Rather than offering up weekly or bi-weekly challenges (as several of my blogger friends do), I’ve decided to provide a monthly theme and a list of topics, questions, and prompts that writers can choose from. I know that sometimes, when I have too many memes that I want to participate in, I get stressed or end up having to leave a few out or make choices about which I can or will write for. This way, the EJC will…

  • Blogging & Writing

    Smutathon

    What is Smutathon? Smutathon is the fundraiser brainchild of Amy from Coffee and Kink. The idea was simple. We all enjoy writing smut, we love the chance to get together and celebrate connections in this community from near and far- so why not harness this enjoyment and try to raise some funds for a good cause? And that’s what we did in 2017, taking over a flat in London, with some writers joining the fun remotely, to write for 12 hours and to raise funds for Backlash UK and Rape Crisis England and Wales. But Smutathon matured over time, like a really fine wine. In 2018 a team of writers…

  • Experience

    Journal 9/24/2019

    It does, indeed, rain in the desert. And when it does, the animals come from far and near, ignoring prey/predator relationships, gathering…reveling. Last night, when I came home (sports practice cancelled – due to rain – which makes my opening metaphor a little ironic), child in tow, we both looked at each other in disappointment. He was cooking dinner as I walked in (child obviously out of earshot), and He said, “Well, I guess that ruins my plans of fucking you while he was at practice.” I replied, “I had the same plan.” And He said, “I know.” That simple. We both knew that in order to get things going…

  • Experience

    Journal 9/23/2019 a.m.

    Okay…our 3rd (sadly low) offer on the house came in Saturday and with news that a 4th was coming, they quickly rescinded. The 4th was actually the most decent we’ve had, and it came with a very sweet letter telling us how much they really liked the house and hoped to raise their kids there. They actually put a healthy chunk of change down in earnest, as well. So…looks like things are moving towards a sale again. Thank god. Yesterday pretty much ran away from us. After having been out of town for soccer most of Saturday, we had to make up all our weekend chores, and our son had…

  • Blogging & Writing,  Brigit's Favorite Things,  Opinion

    Smut Marathon (quarter-finals) Feedback

    If you don’t know about the Smut Marathon, please click HERE to head to the website and learn more. It’s a yearly writing competition. Last year, I was a contestant (made it through round 7) and this year I am a jury member (which I am thoroughly enjoying). I’m always intrigued to see the final results of a voting round. What I’ve found, especially as a jury member, is that I vote very differently than most. So, I suppose my feedback is valuable in the sense that it at least lets those interested know why I vote the way I do. I could look at the numbers and feel as…

  • Experience

    Journal 9/21/2019 a.m.

    So our house sale fell through, for a second fucking time. We haven’t had sex in, like, 2 weeks, and our Saturday belongs to youth soccer. Conditions are not ripe for “re-connection,” and I’m sort of dreading Sunday’s “Marriage Talk,” as He’s been alluding to it all week (We’ll talk about it Sunday…). Might as well add the theme song to Jaws to my weekend, too, just to really set the mood of high anxiety and impending doom. Hopefully, there will be no blood in the water come Sunday evening. We’re getting snippy with each other, though, in the interim. His mood is dropping, and mine, as expected, is following.…

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