Quite honestly, I don’t have a lot to say about this topic. This isn’t anything Mr. D and I have ever tried or even talked about trying.
I’ve read stories and other people’s accounts that make it sound terribly erotic, but for myself, it’s not something I’ve ever counted as a thing I really wanted to try.
But, since the topic came up for 30 Days of D/s, I figured I’d at least attempt a post.
After all, there is quite a bit of evidence that shows edging can be beneficial and help to produce more intense and longer lasting orgasms. It can also help men who have trouble with premature ejaculation, which is, from my understanding and research, what it was initially “prescribed” for. Now, it’s become sort of a trend in BDSM, D/s, and the vanilla world. I don’t really know much about it myself, but I did find a helpful article about it on Healthline.
So, if you’re new to it or know little about it, check that link.
However, I thought I’d handle this topic a little differently…by putting it in your hands. I’ve got some questions for you:
Do you incorporate orgasm control into your sex life?
When and how did you decide to experiment with it?
Does it intensify your orgasms or make sex better for you?
If it’s a turn on for you…why? What does it do for you?
How did you train yourself to resist letting your body go in the height of sexual passion?
Who in the relationship suggested it?
How has it improved your sex life? Or has it?
If you have a funny story related to your early experiments with it…do share…
What advice do you have for people who have never attempted orgasm control?
Post in the comments below. Or link to your own post answering one or all of these questions. Maybe you’ll change my mind about it and pique my interest a little bit more…