• Experience,  Photography

    Fog

    Fog BY CARL SANDBURG The fog comes on little cat feet. It sits looking over harbor and city on silent haunches and then moves on. It was a foggy morning and afternoon here in the Pacific Northwest. And the cottonwoods are making a mess of my sinuses, their seeds and fluff flying in the wind so thickly at times it looks like snow. But, I’m trying to keep my sexy on. I texted my Husband this afternoon, telling Him I wanted his cock in my mouth, using cute emojis for cock (a rooster) and mouth (how do they make these little clip art images look so seductive?). Then, I immediately felt…

  • Blogging & Writing

    7 Blogging Landmarks & 7 Future Blogging Plans

    Landmark 1: When I started blogging, over ten years ago, I didn’t actually have a sex blog. It was just a “journal” style blog and I had zero followers. But that wasn’t the point. The point was simply to have a space where I could tag and categorize my thoughts. If I’d known about Evernote back then, I probably would have used that instead, but I didn’t, which means I made my way online and that was the first step to a very big world that I didn’t even really know existed. I had a few various blogs before I finally settled into one that lasted. I think, back then,…

  • Fiction

    Part 3 – The Disappearance of Emily Bennett

    Part 2 The smooth leather was cool and shocking beneath my naked behind as I glanced periodically over my shoulder, biting my lip in shame, and slid into the backseat of the spotless black Mercedes sedan. The driver didn’t even pick up my clothing before walking around the back of the car, finding his place in the driver’s seat. He pressed the speaker in his ear for better hearing, I imagine, and then responded to what I could only imagine was the voice of my proprietor, “Yes, I have her…yes…clean…she looks just as you would expect.” The words validated me somehow, and I blushed a bit in both shame, at…

  • 30 Days of D/s,  Experience

    This is Not “Sub Frenzy”

    This post is #27 in my 30 Days of D/s series. If you’d like to read more, please visit my 30 Days of D/s page for the complete inventory of posts. As someone who deals with bi-polar disorder and completely understands the implications of manic behavior, I guess I’d have to admit that I can become frenetic about anything new: a project, a goal, a plan, and yes…a lifestyle. Though I wouldn’t say it’s a bad thing, necessarily, to be excited about the prospects of “new” endeavors, the “new” does tend to wear off pretty quickly for me. And I fear that. Because when it wears off, it often brings guilt and shame…

  • Mr. D's Sinful Sunday,  Photography

    Iceberg

    “The mind is like an iceberg; it floats with one-seventh of its bulk above water.” Sigmund Freud This week, as usual, Mr. D was charged with coming up with a photo idea. He told me to make the bed, take off my clothes, and get him a bowl of ice cubes. My brain swam trying to figure out what he had up his sleeve, and even as I lay on the bed, the curtains open to let in the light of day, my head turned toward it…hearing the click of the camera shutter, I had no idea what he was creating. I giggled as he ran the ice cubes over…

  • Experience,  My EJC Responses

    Gratitude

    I’ve always been a bit embarrassed about sharing any part of my sexuality. I have a hard time talking about it to anyone, friends, professionals, even my Husband at times. I know this likely sounds intensely ironic considering what I post on this website. But, that’s the thing. Sex blogging has provided me a forum for sharing some very personal things: my feelings, my vulnerabilities, my fears, my fantasies, my body. And since this is an area that sometimes causes me mental turmoil (past tense more than present – I’m getting better), having an outlet has been theraputic and cathartic. I have used this space (and others like it) to…

  • 30 Days of D/s,  Experience

    Trust

    This post is #26 in my 30 Days of D/s series. If you’d like to read more, please visit my 30 Days of D/s page for the complete inventory of posts. In any relationship, trust is paramount. It can be earned, lost, regained. Depending on who you are, you may trust easily, or not at all. And that affects how, when, and with whom you can sustain a partnership. I don’t trust easily. I was taught not to, verbally and on a fairly regular basis, by my father. Partly because of that, and partly because of my personality, I was always a one-friend-at-a-time kind of person when I was young. I had more…

  • Erotic Journal Challenge

    The Erotic Journal Challenge #20: “Aging”

    This week’s prompt for The Erotic Journal Challenge is:  Aging. What are you thoughts, hopes, and fears about sexuality as you age? The nuts and bolts of the challenge: Each week, I will post a topic or question that I plan to explore in my own journal. I’m going to post them and add a link-up so that readers can get in on the challenge, too. I encourage you to respond in whatever way seems most authentic – a journal entry, drawing, photo, video, story, poem…ANYTHING that can be posted on your website. Then, link your post here. This is your interpretation, whatever the prompt inspires in you. I’ll post the prompts…

  • Experience,  Photography

    Pretty in Pink

    This week, Food For Thought Friday asks us: What are your motivations for taking sexy photos? In some ways, I guess I’m a bit of an exhibitionist (online, that is). I like to be seen as sexy and I appreciate the attention that comes with it, when it’s in a controlled atmosphere (like my website). In real life, I have difficulty even taking a compliment. I’m not nearly as confident as I probably should be, but over the years, photographing myself and sharing photos has definitely improved my self-esteem.  I also take sexy photos for my Husband on a regular basis and send them via text or email. My motivation…

  • Fiction

    Part 2 – The Disappearance of Emily Bennett

    Part 1 I took the proffered pieces of clothing and headed back toward the dressing room, returning to the register in a simple black sleeveless shift dress with a black cardigan and black slip-on flats. Underneath: black lace bralette and matching panties. That was all. “If you’d like to tie your hair back, I have bands for that,” the shop girl noted. “Yes, I think that would be perfect, thank you.” She handed me a cardboard card with several bands wrapped around it. I took one, smoothed back my hair and alternated the pony tail through each hand a few times before wrapping the band around the base a few…

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