• 30 Days of D/s,  Experience,  Opinion

    D/s Doesn’t Always (or Ever) Have to Be About Sex

    This post is #20 in my 30 Days of D/s series. If you’d like to read more, please visit my 30 Days of D/s page for the complete inventory of posts.  Tonight, as I looked at my new workout video and talked out loud about what I need to do to really lose weight, I told Mr. D that it would help if he told me I had to do it…if he’d add a Saturday and Sunday workout to my rules. Snap. Done. Just like that. And yes, in my mind, it instantly became a “have to” rather than a “maybe I’ll give it a try.” When I have to ask to spend…

  • Experience,  My EJC Responses

    Processing Emotions about Polyamory

    I’m having a lot of feels today. And rather than stuffing them down as I normally do when it comes to this, because I’m afraid of causing problems or being seen as too emotional or reactionary, I’m going to process it (quickly – which is not my normal manner)…to avoid causing bigger problems later. Yesterday, Mr. D was down. Very down. He hung out in bed for some time, but I didn’t want to force Him to have a conversation He wasn’t ready to have. Besides, if it was depression rearing it’s unwanted little head, I knew He might be telling me the truth when I He told me He…

  • Mr. D's Sinful Sunday,  My EJC Responses,  Photography

    Learning to Fly

    I’m not a risk-taker. Although I’m sure lots of people might say that I am, especially after having read my blog for any amount of time. I guess it’s relative. But, in my bones…I know I don’t take chances. I hole up in the safety of what I know, and I panic when faced with newness and change. Eventually…and slowly…I might take a step or two forward. But still…unlike some who may see opportunity in chance, I see all the things that may go wrong…and I fixate on that rather than on the good that could come of it. Unlike some who may see adventure in change, I see fear.…

  • Reviews,  Sex Toy Reviews,  Sex Toy Sunday

    That’s a Powerful Little Sucker! (Paloqueth “Clitoral Sucking Vibrator”)

    When Paloqueth contacted me in March about testing one of their products, I decided to jump at the opportunity. Reviewing products isn’t normally my gig, but I figured I could try to put my own spin on this thing and branch out to experiment with a new style of toy I normally wouldn’t buy. They initially offered up a wand-style “massager,” but having been given one of these years ago by a girlfriend and finding it way too powerful and unforgiving for my super-sensitive lady parts, I opted to try something different. So, rather than going for a regular dildo-style vibrator (of which I already have a few…and seriously, the thought…

  • Erotic Journal Challenge

    The Erotic Journal Challenge #16: “Confession”

    This week’s prompt for The Erotic Journal Challenge is:  Confession I’m gonna leave that one right there, because there are so many interesting and story-worthy ways to deal with that concept. I don’t want to bend any one any certain way. The nuts and bolts of the challenge: Each week, I will post a topic or question that I plan to explore in my own journal. I’m going to post them and add a link-up so that readers can get in on the challenge, too. I encourage you to respond in whatever way seems most authentic – a journal entry, drawing, photo, video, story, poem…ANYTHING that can be posted on…

  • 30 Days of D/s,  Experience,  Opinion

    When Sub Duties Become Irritating

    This post is #19 in my 30 Days of D/s series. If you’d like to read more, please visit my 30 Days of D/s page for the complete inventory of posts.  I forgot to mention this in yesterday’s post, so I decided to do an addendum post today rather than move on to the new topic. (As you can see, I’m taking my time with this and the 30 days will take me well in to May.) This is a tough topic, but I think it’s important to deal with in any discussion of 24/7 D/s. As subs, we’re not always going to be in the mood to comply with…

  • 30 Days of D/s,  Experience,  Opinion

    Real Life D/s

    This post is #18 in my 30 Days of D/s series. If you’d like to read more, please visit my 30 Days of D/s page for the complete inventory of posts.  D/s would be “easy” if we all lived in dungeons, didn’t have kids, and didn’t go to work. But, hey, we’re human and we do have kids and we do get sick and we work and sometimes we just aren’t fucking in the mood. That last one, I don’t really get a choice. (Mood doesn’t seem to be something Mr. D is really willing to let me get away with.) But, we spend a lot of time being parents and just being…

  • Fiction

    Preparation

    It’s quiet. Like I’m home alone…but I’m not. Laying here, in the bed at half past eight in the morning, I imagine that my family is in the living room: husband reading, and our child plugged into headphones as to not disturb. The blankets are heavy above me, holding me down, refusing me access to my own skin. So I peel them away, one at a time, until all that is left is the white sheet. I run my hands over the cotton from my throat, across my chest and belly and mound, until they stop, as far as they can go, above my thighs. Pointing my toes, I let…

  • 30 Days of D/s,  Experience

    Rules in My D/s Relationship

    This post is #17 in my 30 Days of D/s series. If you’d like to read more, please visit my 30 Days of D/s page for the complete inventory of posts.  Friday night, He handed me an envelope. I felt a flutter of anticipation in my chest because I hoped it would be something to do with His expectations for me as His submissive, which it was. It began with a list of precepts. Precepts: I will obey His commands to the best of my ability. I will strive to overcome feelings of guilt or shame, and all inhibitions that interfere with my capability to serve Him and limit my…

  • Brigit's Favorite Things

    Brigit’s Favorite Things (#10/2019)

    Every Day Pain Not all our writing has to be sexy…but I’m drawn to vulnerability and honesty, so this one by E.L. really grabbed me. Letter to Myself HisLordshipUK jumped on the Erotic Journal Challenge with this charming letter to his younger self. What would you say to yours? This gorgeous image of kisungura called “Fresco” is a must-see! [Erotica] Pissturn Alley I found this story a little disturbing, as I’m not into urination as a kink. But somehow, it stuck in my brain and wouldn’t let go. The concept of humiliation has always been one of those turn-ons that sort of embarrasses me to admit, and when I read…

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