• Experience

    When your libido takes a vacation…how do you convince it to come back?

    So, I’ve been having some difficulty with my mood and libido recently.  To some degree, I’m tired (been doing a lot at work — juggling a lot of balls, and not the kind I like) – mentally and physically.  And to some degree, I know that I cycle with the moon (waxing…bring it on; waning…leave me alone).  And there seems to be something about January and February that get in the way of things, too.  With all that stacked against me, I’m left with a whole lotta work and productivity, but not a lot of pride in what I’ve accomplished.  Sometimes, it’s hard to get psyched up when the mountain…

  • Photography

    The sexiest parts of a man… (HNT – featuring Mr. LL)

    Oh…there are so many… I truly revel in the male form; so many things to appreciate.  And, honestly, it’s different with every man.  Everyone has their best features – but overall…these are my top 5…or 6… 1) Eyes.  I’m a sucker for green or blue.  Blue, especially.  It’s what grabbed me the second I first saw my husband.  Intense blue eyes that offered me honesty and mystery.  Reel me in. That’s all I’m sayin’.  And glasses can be a definite turn on for me. Can I have him for my birthday? 2) Lips.  Yes…they matter – even on a man.  Those lips are gonna be taking a trip across mine,…

  • Poetry

    After Noon

    The sun hangs heavy in the western sky,seeking refuge behind darkening clouds.Deep blue hugs the heated curves of light,bending them as the tree limbs shroudwet layers of green water and dark shore.It is unmotivated, waiting for guidance,attempting a slow, gradual retreat towardthe soft pink fingers of twilight’s expanse.The pull is too great.  The orb, sinking low,moves smoothly, without hesitation,going down, to kiss the blushing glow,leaving it lavender with satisfaction.     Dusk is the siren’s song, seducing the sun     into shadow.  Night’s web has been spun. This has been a Wicked Wednesday post.

  • Experience

    You Ought to Be in Pictures…

    This is a TMI TUESDAY post.  Click on the link to see who else is sharing too much information. A bunch of celebrity sex tapes have been made public through fair means or foul. Have you seen any of these? Which ones? Pamela Anderson and Bret MichaelsParis Hilton and Rick SolomonPamela Anderson and Tommy LeeKim Kardashian and Ray-JKendra Wilkinson and Justin Frye My Answer:  Well, I guess I’m proud to say that I only even know who 4 of these people are…and I’ve never seen any sex-related pictures or videos involving them…that I know of.  I suppose…since I don’t know who most of them are, I wouldn’t have recognized them…

  • Blogging & Writing,  Brigit's Favorite Things

    The SMARTEST Sex Bloggers

    I’ll be honest…I often love words more than I love people.  That being said, I’m also sort of a word snob.  I can be easily intoxicated by an intelligent post on a sex blog.  I think too many people believe that sex-blogging is just that…writing about sex – in a raw, base, or trite way.  But, it can be so much more.  There are whole conversations happening out there, academic…introspective…educational writing about sex-related topics.  And the voices!  So many points of view…students, prostitutes, swingers, people writing about their affairs, doms, subs, kinksters, people in poly relationships, young people, old people, published authors, housewives…the list goes on. Click on image properties…

  • Experience

    Hotel pictures (HNT)

    So…a few more anonymous hotel background photos for this HNT. I want to spend a little time working on Dear Sir tonight, and catching up on other peoples’ blogs.  So…on with the show… There’s something about natural light…a sexy shoes…and men’s shirts…and black lace panties…and perfectly white sheets that someone else has to wash… And something about having an incredibly sexy man tell me what to do for the camera… And having ‘morning-after, good-time-had-by-all-four kind of night’ sex. And then driving home to resume our real life.  Oh wait…this is our real life.  But, it’s like being Clark Kent and Superman at the same time.  Geeky conservative types during the…

  • Experience

    I’m an introverted exhibitionist

    This is a Wicked Wednesday post.  Click on the link to see who else is writing wicked thoughts this Wednesday. The prompt: My response: I’m that girl you might see in the corner at the coffee shop, glasses, hair up, t-shirt and jeans – maybe a cardigan to dress it up.  I’m probably reading…or maybe writing…or typing.  Sometimes I’m chatting with someone…but I am rarely in a group.  More likely than even a coffee shop, I’m at home.  I like my space…my things…my people.  And I have a real tendency to get comfortable with routines. Really, I have a hard time talking to most people.  And the people I do…

  • Experience

    New Year…New Blog Plans

    So, I’ve begun a bit of a side project…and am adding a new routine periodic post theme this year… If you look at the list of page links at the top of the page, you will find an addition called “Dear Sir”…this is something I’ve been wanting to do for some time, in one form or another…and somehow, today…it materialized, and I just went to town with it.  We’ll see where it takes me…and us.  My original intent was to do something somewhat like Anais Nin’s letters/stories to a paying patron who requested certain intimate information from her…challenging her to really explore the depths of feminine sexuality in her erotica. …

  • Brigit's Favorite Things

    Best Posts of the New Year…

    Good lord, we’re only 4 days in, and the sex blogosphere has been busy, which means I’ve been doing a lot of reading (darn). My favorite sexy reads so far (and several of these are new to me):  Quickies in New York – Photography and Shorts…always a treat, but this week, more than one grabbed me:  “The Dirty Gentleman (#574)/”She used to read…” and “Mrs. Smith’s School for Wayward Catholic Girls” NEW TO ME:  Red Region Inferno – “The Sexiest Blogs of 2012” offers up a whole list of great blogs, many of which I was not familiar with…but will be…soon. NEW TO ME:  Drunken Slut Mum – I found…

  • Experience,  Poetry

    “A Window, Open to the World” – original poetry (HNT)

    I offer myself upto your lenselet youpose me as you like Dress meundress mecreate the imagejust right Sunlight shinesacross the sweatyhotel sheets And I lay therein front of you with my legs crossedor spreadat your command Each photo leads you closer tothe place of greatestintrigue You set the camera asideto taste the canvas We make lovein the bright lightwith heat on our skinand a windowopen to the world The Lustful Literate The Lustful Literate The Lustful Literate The Lustful Literate The Lustful Literate

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