UPDATE (DEC. 2012):  I HAVE, INDEED, NOW MASTURBATED FOR MR.LL.  AND, YES, HE LIKED IT.  WILL I DO IT AGAIN…PROBABLY.  SOMEDAY. ORIGINAL POST:On “Ask Me Anything” a reader inquires about my willingness to masturbate in front of my husband or watch him masturbate in front of me. Interestingly, this is a topic that has come…

Usually, we do not invite people with whom we “play” into our home.  We like to keep our vanilla and our “multi-flavor” lives separate.  On occasion, we have become close enough friends with another couple to invite them over (or vice versa). Our preference is out of town and at a hotel.  We like to…

Thanks for the question, N.A. “perfume ? a sexual starting place….the thought of ” he loves this one…if i put this on now, he’s going to want me…. ” etc . ever happen, or does not apply in the LL household?” Answer: Oh goodness, yes!  The sense of smell is a huge part of who…

Well, “n.a.”, my dear reader.  You asked me this:  “Baby oil, yay or nay?”  So here is your answer. I, personally, am not a fan of oils at all.  Even when I get a professional massage, I usually come right home and take a shower to get it off.  Oils tend to ruin clothing, soak…