Probably the best guidance I have ever come across regarding D/s is that there is no one true way…no particularly right way to do it. And I believe one of the gravest mistakes people can make when new to D/s is assume that there is. Of course there are good rules of thumb and things…
Yesterday, in The Submissive Advent Calendar, I was to find or create a token to remind myself of my submission. A simple thing, really. And yet, I struggled with it…reconsidering it throughout the day. A bracelet? No. Because I am on the computer most of the day, and jewelry on my wrists is bothersome (though…
The Advent is a time of anticipation and preparation for the winter season. Submission, too, can be an intricate dance in which a submissive has the opportunity to anticipate, prepare, and meet the needs of his or her Dominant. This year, I am following Luna K’s Submissive Advent Calendar, and the first day hit me…
DECEMber’s Theme: Advent I’ve seen so many fabulous advent ideas over the years, so rather than thrust my own upon you, the challenge this month is to create your own advent calendar or follow someone else’s and write about your experience! For example, I am planning to do Luna K’s The Submissive’s Advent Calendar. There…
Well, I managed 21 posts this month. And though I didn’t answer all of my 30 Dirty Questions, I posted more this month than I normally do, so I’d still call #EROBLOPOMO a success. I plan to leave the 30 Dirty Questions up (linked in my projects), for future reference, so if you didn’t partake…